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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 161936" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>Baby Blue, </p><p></p><p>You didn't respond to my reply to your post asking if we ever felt like we didn't matter. I took a long time to write to you, but I meant what I wrote. </p><p></p><p>You HAVE a family that loves you and apparently can help you financially. Call your dad (collect) and ask him for money for 2 bus tickets and GET yourself somewhere that you can get help. </p><p></p><p>We're all sympathetic to what is going on in your life - really. A lot of us have been there. But eventually YOU are going to HAVE to see that the only one that can change these things in your life that bother you and you post about is YOU - </p><p></p><p>He didn't pay the rent again - HE only worked 2 days again - the rent is due EVERY month and he has a pattern of NOT being reliable so why put yourself and your kid through this every MONTH? </p><p></p><p>The definition of insanity is doing the same flawed thing over and over and expecting a different result every time. And you are expecting HIM to do something different OVER and OVER - and he's not going to do it. </p><p></p><p>I don't know if this relationship is worth all the energy you seem to be putting into it - but when it's only YOU over and over that is trying, at some point you have got to ask yourself "WHY AM I STILL HERE?" </p><p></p><p>You are not going to change him. If he is going to change - he would do it. He would HAVE the rent money and YOU wouldn't be stressed out about it. </p><p></p><p>Seriously GO HOME - stop trying to prove to yourself that THIS IS the relationship that you will SHOW everyone the YOU will make work. It takes 2 to make a loving relationship work - and the only one that is sending out love here is you. Call your Dad - pack a few things- things are only things - you can replace EVERYTHING you have later = take what is important to you - leave him a note and GO HOME. </p><p></p><p>You have that option. Staying to prove to everyone that you WILL make something work that won't is killing you. I told you before I know. I hope you will take this advice and do something for yourself. </p><p></p><p>Loads of hugs....</p><p>Star</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 161936, member: 4964"] Baby Blue, You didn't respond to my reply to your post asking if we ever felt like we didn't matter. I took a long time to write to you, but I meant what I wrote. You HAVE a family that loves you and apparently can help you financially. Call your dad (collect) and ask him for money for 2 bus tickets and GET yourself somewhere that you can get help. We're all sympathetic to what is going on in your life - really. A lot of us have been there. But eventually YOU are going to HAVE to see that the only one that can change these things in your life that bother you and you post about is YOU - He didn't pay the rent again - HE only worked 2 days again - the rent is due EVERY month and he has a pattern of NOT being reliable so why put yourself and your kid through this every MONTH? The definition of insanity is doing the same flawed thing over and over and expecting a different result every time. And you are expecting HIM to do something different OVER and OVER - and he's not going to do it. I don't know if this relationship is worth all the energy you seem to be putting into it - but when it's only YOU over and over that is trying, at some point you have got to ask yourself "WHY AM I STILL HERE?" You are not going to change him. If he is going to change - he would do it. He would HAVE the rent money and YOU wouldn't be stressed out about it. Seriously GO HOME - stop trying to prove to yourself that THIS IS the relationship that you will SHOW everyone the YOU will make work. It takes 2 to make a loving relationship work - and the only one that is sending out love here is you. Call your Dad - pack a few things- things are only things - you can replace EVERYTHING you have later = take what is important to you - leave him a note and GO HOME. You have that option. Staying to prove to everyone that you WILL make something work that won't is killing you. I told you before I know. I hope you will take this advice and do something for yourself. Loads of hugs.... Star [/QUOTE]
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