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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 746487" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Dear Copa let him come back. He may agree and may not, but if he does come back let that be your peace. It was never wrong to ask for rent....you know he gets money. It was never wrong to have expectations. We all do. But J wont meet any expectations so if it is your greatest wish for your peace to have him safe and sound then for YOU I would choose to be helpful and agreeable and hope for the best, but dont demand expectations.</p><p></p><p>This is for you, not for him.</p><p></p><p>Pushing him did not work. in my opinion dont go there again. It could alienate him and that is the last thing you want. YOU want.</p><p></p><p>You can make it about your needs this time.</p><p></p><p>The reason you made it on your own is your incredible intelligence and drive. You are way above the average person there. Dont sell yourself short.</p><p></p><p>But not everyone can function at your level. I cant. J probably cant. </p><p></p><p>I do think he could do better but if he maybe cant or if he just wont and if you need him near you to be whole, then just do it.</p><p></p><p>For you.</p><p></p><p>Hugs and much support.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 746487, member: 1550"] Dear Copa let him come back. He may agree and may not, but if he does come back let that be your peace. It was never wrong to ask for rent....you know he gets money. It was never wrong to have expectations. We all do. But J wont meet any expectations so if it is your greatest wish for your peace to have him safe and sound then for YOU I would choose to be helpful and agreeable and hope for the best, but dont demand expectations. This is for you, not for him. Pushing him did not work. in my opinion dont go there again. It could alienate him and that is the last thing you want. YOU want. You can make it about your needs this time. The reason you made it on your own is your incredible intelligence and drive. You are way above the average person there. Dont sell yourself short. But not everyone can function at your level. I cant. J probably cant. I do think he could do better but if he maybe cant or if he just wont and if you need him near you to be whole, then just do it. For you. Hugs and much support. [/QUOTE]
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