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<blockquote data-quote="Nomad" data-source="post: 746524" data-attributes="member: 4152"><p>Copa, I’m so sorry for your pain.</p><p></p><p>Our daughter had a brain aneurysm in elementary school. So, there is that.</p><p></p><p>The birth mother was tested at delivery and was clean. Says nothing about what happened first trimester. I screamed from the rooftops to the agency that I didn’t want a baby from a birth mother who they even suspected may of drink or used drugs. They said they tested “almost” every month. Hmmm. Seems to me many drugs might leave the system after a week or so and if the birthmother knows wat ahead of time the testing date, it would be easy to trick. Also, as they handed me the baby they told me the birth father was a drug user/abuser. So, I have had my suspicions in our case about drug use during the first trimester and of course the aneurysm and subsequent brain surgery is something to seriously consider. It is heart wrenching as she is a bright girl with a good heart, but she can not plan one bit and rarely learns from her mistakes. She is in constant turmoil with others and progresses at a snails pace if at all.</p><p></p><p>Oddly, I see this or something like this with many on the adopted population.</p><p></p><p>VERY difficult and painful for all. (No matter what the cause)</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Nomad, post: 746524, member: 4152"] Copa, I’m so sorry for your pain. Our daughter had a brain aneurysm in elementary school. So, there is that. The birth mother was tested at delivery and was clean. Says nothing about what happened first trimester. I screamed from the rooftops to the agency that I didn’t want a baby from a birth mother who they even suspected may of drink or used drugs. They said they tested “almost” every month. Hmmm. Seems to me many drugs might leave the system after a week or so and if the birthmother knows wat ahead of time the testing date, it would be easy to trick. Also, as they handed me the baby they told me the birth father was a drug user/abuser. So, I have had my suspicions in our case about drug use during the first trimester and of course the aneurysm and subsequent brain surgery is something to seriously consider. It is heart wrenching as she is a bright girl with a good heart, but she can not plan one bit and rarely learns from her mistakes. She is in constant turmoil with others and progresses at a snails pace if at all. Oddly, I see this or something like this with many on the adopted population. VERY difficult and painful for all. (No matter what the cause) [/QUOTE]
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