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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 746540" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>Copa, What will make YOU feel better?</p><p>To me it sounds like you walk a tightrope between M and J when J is there. To me I think that is completely and totally unfair to you. M really has no say, he is not your husband or J's dad. I don't think you should have to justify your feelings or you wanting J to come home to M. </p><p>Maybe I read it wrong and M doesn't judge or complain about J. </p><p>Now..my next question...</p><p>If j comes home, can you let control go? If you can, great. If you are going to constantly stress and tell him what to do, forget it.</p><p>You will be stressed constantly. </p><p>Sorry, but the more he has done (or not done lately) the more I think he is in total control and just wants to manipulate you. </p><p>How much are they <u>not</u> capable of job and commitment wise and how much is just laziness? </p><p>J not showing up. How much is laziness, sleeping another 10 minutes, 100x and then, "Oh well it's too late, she'll get over it". </p><p>He didn't return texts but THEN answers his friends phone? </p><p></p><p>I hope you can come up with a plan that you can live with and won't stress YOU out.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 746540, member: 23103"] Copa, What will make YOU feel better? To me it sounds like you walk a tightrope between M and J when J is there. To me I think that is completely and totally unfair to you. M really has no say, he is not your husband or J's dad. I don't think you should have to justify your feelings or you wanting J to come home to M. Maybe I read it wrong and M doesn't judge or complain about J. Now..my next question... If j comes home, can you let control go? If you can, great. If you are going to constantly stress and tell him what to do, forget it. You will be stressed constantly. Sorry, but the more he has done (or not done lately) the more I think he is in total control and just wants to manipulate you. How much are they [U]not[/U] capable of job and commitment wise and how much is just laziness? J not showing up. How much is laziness, sleeping another 10 minutes, 100x and then, "Oh well it's too late, she'll get over it". He didn't return texts but THEN answers his friends phone? I hope you can come up with a plan that you can live with and won't stress YOU out. [/QUOTE]
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