Forums
New posts
Search forums
What's new
New posts
New profile posts
Latest activity
Internet Search
Members
Current visitors
New profile posts
Search profile posts
Log in
Register
What's new
Search
Search
Search titles only
By:
New posts
Search forums
Menu
Log in
Register
Install the app
Install
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
He didn't show
JavaScript is disabled. For a better experience, please enable JavaScript in your browser before proceeding.
You are using an out of date browser. It may not display this or other websites correctly.
You should upgrade or use an
alternative browser
.
Reply to thread
Message
<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 746541" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I dont believe he is in total control or is trying to manipulate her. Not at all. I think he is very confused and maybe limited in pretty obvious ways by his prenatal drug exposure plus two TBIs. These are big deals. They affect functioning.</p><p></p><p>I think of all the mothers here, Copa, most of all, needs her son near her. She loves him in a very deep, bonding, connected way and is actually a wreck when he is gone. In her case, she is more of a emotional mess when he is gone. I do think there has to be a surrender of trying to control him. But she can not detach from him and need not. It is her choice.</p><p></p><p>They would not be living in the same house. She owns separate property. M may or may not be a problem but he means well. J and M are not mean or malicious people.</p><p></p><p>This is something I think Copa needs to try. Other mothers not so much. Copa, yes.</p><p></p><p>Big hugs to all!</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 746541, member: 1550"] I dont believe he is in total control or is trying to manipulate her. Not at all. I think he is very confused and maybe limited in pretty obvious ways by his prenatal drug exposure plus two TBIs. These are big deals. They affect functioning. I think of all the mothers here, Copa, most of all, needs her son near her. She loves him in a very deep, bonding, connected way and is actually a wreck when he is gone. In her case, she is more of a emotional mess when he is gone. I do think there has to be a surrender of trying to control him. But she can not detach from him and need not. It is her choice. They would not be living in the same house. She owns separate property. M may or may not be a problem but he means well. J and M are not mean or malicious people. This is something I think Copa needs to try. Other mothers not so much. Copa, yes. Big hugs to all! [/QUOTE]
Insert quotes…
Verification
Post reply
Forums
Parent Support Forums
Parent Emeritus
He didn't show
Top