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<blockquote data-quote="Tired out" data-source="post: 746544" data-attributes="member: 23103"><p>I agree with you that I think Copa needs to try. For her own peace of mind. To know where he is and that he is safe and hopefully taking care of his health. </p><p>I really wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he just can't get it together. But I don't know. </p><p>I don't think that M is trying to cause strife. I am afraid that maybe Cope FEELS that she needs both of them to be ok with each other and M to be ok with J being there. Maybe M really doesn't have a problem with it. </p><p>I know I always try to be the buffer/peach keeper. I think a lot of the time everything would be fine if I just relaxed and quit trying to buffer things..</p><p>Ben hasn't seen my hubby/his dad since August and he is fine with it. they are both in denial about the happenings that caused all of this. There is accountability on both sides--and mine too for doing too much buffering for the last 3 years. ben's offenses are above and beyond the most. But dad has started asking about him. I have started saying, I don't know, call him if you want to talk to him. I am not being a go between anymore. </p><p></p><p>Copa, Huggs from across the miles. I am rooting for you, m and j. </p><p>I hope and pray you can find a way to make everything work and maintain some peace.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Tired out, post: 746544, member: 23103"] I agree with you that I think Copa needs to try. For her own peace of mind. To know where he is and that he is safe and hopefully taking care of his health. I really wanted to give him the benefit of the doubt that maybe he just can't get it together. But I don't know. I don't think that M is trying to cause strife. I am afraid that maybe Cope FEELS that she needs both of them to be ok with each other and M to be ok with J being there. Maybe M really doesn't have a problem with it. I know I always try to be the buffer/peach keeper. I think a lot of the time everything would be fine if I just relaxed and quit trying to buffer things.. Ben hasn't seen my hubby/his dad since August and he is fine with it. they are both in denial about the happenings that caused all of this. There is accountability on both sides--and mine too for doing too much buffering for the last 3 years. ben's offenses are above and beyond the most. But dad has started asking about him. I have started saying, I don't know, call him if you want to talk to him. I am not being a go between anymore. Copa, Huggs from across the miles. I am rooting for you, m and j. I hope and pray you can find a way to make everything work and maintain some peace. [/QUOTE]
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