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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 746548" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>Absolutely. This is a bottom line. Thank you Elsi.</p><p>I agree with this SWOT.</p><p>I agree with this, for sure, about me. Maybe there are other mothers here that need their children like I need my son. But they don't complain as much.</p><p>I agree with this, too.</p><p>And I agree with this, too. This makes me anxious. Because I will not be able to control M, either. The image that is coming to mind is a gladiator fight. That is not good. </p><p>I think there's truth to this. But I would not be living with them. I would have to let go of any sense of responsibility of the outcome. It would be between the two of them, should J come back. And I would not accept that M come carry tales back to me. They would have to deal with it. That would be the only way it could work.</p><p></p><p>I had had the idea that M live in the front house, separate from J. And M said that was unnecessary, that he could live with J. Maybe I am blowing this up out of proportion. Maybe I need to let J and M work this out themselves. First, J will decide what he wants. And second, they will either work it out or not. And third, I will deal with whatever happens. Thank you very much.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 746548, member: 18958"] Absolutely. This is a bottom line. Thank you Elsi. I agree with this SWOT. I agree with this, for sure, about me. Maybe there are other mothers here that need their children like I need my son. But they don't complain as much. I agree with this, too. And I agree with this, too. This makes me anxious. Because I will not be able to control M, either. The image that is coming to mind is a gladiator fight. That is not good. I think there's truth to this. But I would not be living with them. I would have to let go of any sense of responsibility of the outcome. It would be between the two of them, should J come back. And I would not accept that M come carry tales back to me. They would have to deal with it. That would be the only way it could work. I had had the idea that M live in the front house, separate from J. And M said that was unnecessary, that he could live with J. Maybe I am blowing this up out of proportion. Maybe I need to let J and M work this out themselves. First, J will decide what he wants. And second, they will either work it out or not. And third, I will deal with whatever happens. Thank you very much. [/QUOTE]
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