TerryJ2
Well-Known Member
The other day, I took difficult child and a friend to a movie, because they had the day off for Columbus Day. They were allowed to play 2 video games in the theater arcade b4, and one afterward. I should have cleaned out his friend's pockets, because while my back was turned, they spent it ALL on more games. Now I know to take everyone's $ upfront, even if it's not my kid.
Like an idiot, I spent my own $ on popcorn and drinks. I should have told them, no food and drinks ... you spent it all. But I was worried their blood sugar would get low.
After the movie, not only did they not say thank you, but difficult child, being a difficult child, wanted more video games. "You promised!"
I told him he broke his promise and that was that.
He ragged on me all the way through the pkng lot, all the way home... I hate that nagging. Even his friend made a comment about it.
I was really upset. Nothing like having something fun turn into h*ll.
So we get home, I send him to his room, let him cool down for a bit, then go to talk to him.
His big line is, "It's not that big of a deal."
"You needed to say thank you."
"It's not a big deal. I don't care."
"You shouldn't have yelled at me; it's disrespectful."
"It's not a big deal. I don't care."
"You're grounded off video games now."
"It's not a big deal. I don't care."
Do husband goes upstairs and tries his hand at it. He comes back down and says,
"He said he thanked you for something already yesterday so he doesn't have to thank you for the movie again today."
AAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggh!
Excuse me while I find a hammer to smash my head with. (Oh, look, here's one ...)
:hammer:
Like an idiot, I spent my own $ on popcorn and drinks. I should have told them, no food and drinks ... you spent it all. But I was worried their blood sugar would get low.
After the movie, not only did they not say thank you, but difficult child, being a difficult child, wanted more video games. "You promised!"
I told him he broke his promise and that was that.
He ragged on me all the way through the pkng lot, all the way home... I hate that nagging. Even his friend made a comment about it.
I was really upset. Nothing like having something fun turn into h*ll.
So we get home, I send him to his room, let him cool down for a bit, then go to talk to him.
His big line is, "It's not that big of a deal."
"You needed to say thank you."
"It's not a big deal. I don't care."
"You shouldn't have yelled at me; it's disrespectful."
"It's not a big deal. I don't care."
"You're grounded off video games now."
"It's not a big deal. I don't care."
Do husband goes upstairs and tries his hand at it. He comes back down and says,
"He said he thanked you for something already yesterday so he doesn't have to thank you for the movie again today."
AAaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaarrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrgggggh!
Excuse me while I find a hammer to smash my head with. (Oh, look, here's one ...)
:hammer: