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He found his birthfamily. No wonder we don't count.
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<blockquote data-quote="mom_to_3" data-source="post: 226809" data-attributes="member: 30"><p>I'm sorry for the hurt, but it's good to at least have a partial answer isn't it? I would have never understood, the "good fit", "bad fit" thing if I hadn't lived it myself. It's real and the sad part is, that we don't really know how it will turn out, until it's already happened. It really is out of our hands. Another one of those, it is what it is kind of things that we just have to accept.</p><p></p><p>I was ill on Christmas day, so did not go with my family to my parents home for dinner. I later heard that my difficult child was speaking to my mother, her grandma, about her birth mother. My difficult child was calling her birth mother, her mom. My mother stopped her and (defended me) and said "you mean your birth mother? Your mom is the one that raised you." My difficult child says, "no, I call both of them mom now. What can you do? Nothing. My mothering my difficult child was not a contest to win mother of the year or to out do her birth mother. There have been so many shocking experiences with my difficult child that nothing really surprises me anymore. I believe that with her................ anything and everything is possible and to always expect the fallout.</p><p></p><p>Some folks are just a piece of work, aren't they?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="mom_to_3, post: 226809, member: 30"] I'm sorry for the hurt, but it's good to at least have a partial answer isn't it? I would have never understood, the "good fit", "bad fit" thing if I hadn't lived it myself. It's real and the sad part is, that we don't really know how it will turn out, until it's already happened. It really is out of our hands. Another one of those, it is what it is kind of things that we just have to accept. I was ill on Christmas day, so did not go with my family to my parents home for dinner. I later heard that my difficult child was speaking to my mother, her grandma, about her birth mother. My difficult child was calling her birth mother, her mom. My mother stopped her and (defended me) and said "you mean your birth mother? Your mom is the one that raised you." My difficult child says, "no, I call both of them mom now. What can you do? Nothing. My mothering my difficult child was not a contest to win mother of the year or to out do her birth mother. There have been so many shocking experiences with my difficult child that nothing really surprises me anymore. I believe that with her................ anything and everything is possible and to always expect the fallout. Some folks are just a piece of work, aren't they? [/QUOTE]
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