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he just doesn't get it!
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<blockquote data-quote="Steely" data-source="post: 162260" data-attributes="member: 3301"><p>Sending good thoughts and vibes your way.</p><p></p><p>Dear old Dad sounds like more than I could handle. Have you thought about sitting down and talking to Dad about your boundaries as a Mom, and that when he berates you for your choices with difficult child 1 he is violating your boundaries? He needs to set his own relationship up with difficult child 1, not one that he has through you, that he then controls.</p><p></p><p>As for difficult child 1 - my heart aches for him. He is probably so scared, he is trying to adapt the best way he knows how. When I see you post about him, all I can remember is how he had to defend you against ex-husband that horrible night, and how then ex-husband was then so violent with him. difficult children paradigm on life must be so skewed.</p><p></p><p>Good luck in court. I hope the judge comes up with a master plan that includes some mental help, and therapeutic choices for difficult child - because juvy is just the beginning of a long end in my opinion.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Steely, post: 162260, member: 3301"] Sending good thoughts and vibes your way. Dear old Dad sounds like more than I could handle. Have you thought about sitting down and talking to Dad about your boundaries as a Mom, and that when he berates you for your choices with difficult child 1 he is violating your boundaries? He needs to set his own relationship up with difficult child 1, not one that he has through you, that he then controls. As for difficult child 1 - my heart aches for him. He is probably so scared, he is trying to adapt the best way he knows how. When I see you post about him, all I can remember is how he had to defend you against ex-husband that horrible night, and how then ex-husband was then so violent with him. difficult children paradigm on life must be so skewed. Good luck in court. I hope the judge comes up with a master plan that includes some mental help, and therapeutic choices for difficult child - because juvy is just the beginning of a long end in my opinion. [/QUOTE]
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