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<blockquote data-quote="Big Bad Kitty" data-source="post: 147446" data-attributes="member: 3647"><p>Yes, we know that is what you wanted. But really listen to what is being said:</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>Yep. YOU can create peace in your life, just as your son creates chaos in his. Own your peace and let him own his chaos.</p><p></p><p> </p><p></p><p>Same thing, re-worded. You are allowing his chaos to become your chaos. Let him live in his chaos. Choose to live in peace.</p><p></p><p></p><p></p><p>She is 100% right. You need to accept that he is not ready, and nothing you did or could have done differently would have made him ready.</p><p></p><p></p><p>YOU are responsible for your own happiness. Nobody is going to do it for you. </p><p>Your son is responsible for his own happiness. Or his own misery. Leave him be. One day, it will be bad enough that he will want to stop. Let him know through your actions that you will no longer be making it comfortable for him to continue his lifestyle.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Big Bad Kitty, post: 147446, member: 3647"] Yes, we know that is what you wanted. But really listen to what is being said: Yep. YOU can create peace in your life, just as your son creates chaos in his. Own your peace and let him own his chaos. Same thing, re-worded. You are allowing his chaos to become your chaos. Let him live in his chaos. Choose to live in peace. She is 100% right. You need to accept that he is not ready, and nothing you did or could have done differently would have made him ready. YOU are responsible for your own happiness. Nobody is going to do it for you. Your son is responsible for his own happiness. Or his own misery. Leave him be. One day, it will be bad enough that he will want to stop. Let him know through your actions that you will no longer be making it comfortable for him to continue his lifestyle. [/QUOTE]
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