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<blockquote data-quote="KFld" data-source="post: 95518" data-attributes="member: 2442"><p>Thank you as always everyone.</p><p>Marg, to answer some of your questions, they aren't living at the house. HP And girlfriend are just playing house every evening there together and including her daughter sometimes. Apprantley they cook there together every night and tonight my easy child daughter gets to walk in to her house and meet some other women acting like she owns the place. I know this will not go over well with her and I know she's going because she's a teenager and her curiosity has the best of her. I suggested this morning she bring her boyfriend along so if she's uncomfortable at all, she has someone else there to support her. </p><p>I asked her this morning if she was going straight there from work and she said, yeah I think so unless you need me to come home for awhile first. I don't want her to worry about me, so I told her I already have plans to go to dinner and shopping with Jill so I just wanted to let her know I wasn't going to be home anyway. This leaves the door open for her to decide what she wants to do without feeling disloyal to me. This isn't her fault!! Then she said, o.k., I'm probably not staying there long anyway. </p><p></p><p>I moved out of the house because it was the best thing for me. My father in-law built this house, H grew up in it, and even though it has been my home for 24 years, I became uncomfortable being there. He moved out first into an apartment, but because he runs his business out of the house, he was there every morning before I left for work and many times when I got home from work. It was not giving me the space and time I needed to deal with everything that happened, including my mothers death. I had already decided that when the divorce was final I would be the one moving out anyway. The house we lived in is an 80 foot L shaped ranch with 5 bedrooms. I had no intention of continuing to live there and maintain it and it's much to big for my daughter and I. He wants to live in the house and will have to buy me out. </p><p></p><p>I want my own place with my own fresh start. I love the apartment I am in, though it's only temporary until I find something I want to buy. Then the dog will come with me also. </p><p></p><p>It doesn't bother me so much that I feel like a guest going into that house, but to do that to his children is another thing. My apartment is my home now and I love it. My daughter loves it to and said she really doesn't miss the house as much as she thought she would, but I know seeing someone taking it over isn't going to go over as easily.</p><p></p><p>I will get through this day, and I will do it with dignity. I will go shopping tonight and have a nice dinner out with BFF. </p><p></p><p>Tonight when easy child gets home, if she doesn't bring it up herself I will just ask her how dinner was. I will also let her know that she can always be comfortable talking to me, but if she isn't she can call Jill, who she is close to, her grandmother or her cousin if it's something she doesn't feel comfortable talking to me about. </p><p></p><p>I know I shouldn't worry about her so much. She has proven to be such a mature well rounded young women, but I do have to remember, she is still just a teenager.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="KFld, post: 95518, member: 2442"] Thank you as always everyone. Marg, to answer some of your questions, they aren't living at the house. HP And girlfriend are just playing house every evening there together and including her daughter sometimes. Apprantley they cook there together every night and tonight my easy child daughter gets to walk in to her house and meet some other women acting like she owns the place. I know this will not go over well with her and I know she's going because she's a teenager and her curiosity has the best of her. I suggested this morning she bring her boyfriend along so if she's uncomfortable at all, she has someone else there to support her. I asked her this morning if she was going straight there from work and she said, yeah I think so unless you need me to come home for awhile first. I don't want her to worry about me, so I told her I already have plans to go to dinner and shopping with Jill so I just wanted to let her know I wasn't going to be home anyway. This leaves the door open for her to decide what she wants to do without feeling disloyal to me. This isn't her fault!! Then she said, o.k., I'm probably not staying there long anyway. I moved out of the house because it was the best thing for me. My father in-law built this house, H grew up in it, and even though it has been my home for 24 years, I became uncomfortable being there. He moved out first into an apartment, but because he runs his business out of the house, he was there every morning before I left for work and many times when I got home from work. It was not giving me the space and time I needed to deal with everything that happened, including my mothers death. I had already decided that when the divorce was final I would be the one moving out anyway. The house we lived in is an 80 foot L shaped ranch with 5 bedrooms. I had no intention of continuing to live there and maintain it and it's much to big for my daughter and I. He wants to live in the house and will have to buy me out. I want my own place with my own fresh start. I love the apartment I am in, though it's only temporary until I find something I want to buy. Then the dog will come with me also. It doesn't bother me so much that I feel like a guest going into that house, but to do that to his children is another thing. My apartment is my home now and I love it. My daughter loves it to and said she really doesn't miss the house as much as she thought she would, but I know seeing someone taking it over isn't going to go over as easily. I will get through this day, and I will do it with dignity. I will go shopping tonight and have a nice dinner out with BFF. Tonight when easy child gets home, if she doesn't bring it up herself I will just ask her how dinner was. I will also let her know that she can always be comfortable talking to me, but if she isn't she can call Jill, who she is close to, her grandmother or her cousin if it's something she doesn't feel comfortable talking to me about. I know I shouldn't worry about her so much. She has proven to be such a mature well rounded young women, but I do have to remember, she is still just a teenager. [/QUOTE]
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