easy child told me yesterday that her father called and invited her to dinner tonight. I said, oh that's nice, and then I asked, our meeting Judy? I don't want her to feel she can't tell me these things. She said yeah, I think so. Then the next comment she made tells me she's doing it out of curiousity and jealousy. She said, oh yeah, Linsay and Brittany, who are her cousins, already met her. Isn't that nice they mer her first? Plus I'm curious to see who her daughter is because she goes to my school and I can't figure out who she is. I would say I can't believe he's doing this, but that would be areally stupid thing to say. We have been seperated for 2 months, he's been in this relationship for 3 weeks. He is now inviting our daughter to her own house that she grew up in where another women and daughter will be, and I'm sure they have been there enough to feel pretty comfortable in MY HOUSE. I can't imagine how this is going to make easy child feel. I asked her if she was comfortable with this and she said, yeah I guess so, maybe I'll just stop by and won't stay for dinner. I told her she has to do whatever she is comfortable with. Needless to say I called bff Jill at 10:30 last night and balled my eyes out. I can't even keep it together this morning and I just got up. How many things can I be hit me with in such a short amount of time. First my mothers illness, then her death, his affair, a new girlfriend in less then two months and now introducing my children to this women in my house. I don't understand why he can't just take his daughter out to a restaraunt for lunch, by himself, and spend time with her that way for a while. No, he has to create this family. Jill and I are going shopping tonight and get something to eat. I told her there is no way I can sit home by myself tonight eating dinner watching t.v. Believe me, many nights I cherish that, but tonight will not be one of them. I'm trying to figure out how to get through the day at work without the flood gates opening. My counselor told me last week he shouldn't be introducing his kids to anymore for months, after the divorce is final, and we only just filed. She's away for a few days so I can't even call her and ask her how to handle this. I guess I just have to zip my lips and let her go. I want to call and blast him, but then I know if I say anything and easy child doesn't like this girl or his daughter and isn't comfortable spending time with them, he'll blame it on me and say I must have said something to her. So again, I guess I have to zip my lips. The fact that he's having them all at the house I think is the most pathetic thing. Hopefully that will work in my favor because easy child can get very posessive over some of her stuff and seeing these people so comfortable with what she will still consider her stuff I don't think is going to go over very well with her. Couldn't he have atleast had them all meet at a restaraunt or something. I think he's hoping the two girls will become best friends and run off watching t.v. together. He forgets his daughter is a mature young women, not a little kid. OH help me get through this day!!!