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He makes way more money than I do so why the hell is he so broke all the time? (Vent)
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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 555848" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>1. You never loan an ex money</p><p></p><p>2. Ex's new spouse has nothing to do with child support and is not your concern. </p><p></p><p>If ex doesn't have the gas money to pick up the kids, simple......he doesn't get the kids. Not your problem. If he has an issue with this you can be honest and say you don't have the spare money either. If he wants to see them or whatever, he can figure it out. </p><p></p><p>I know you're frustrated as hades, but the remark about the new wife rankled. husband had to pay support on katie. I was the "new wife" and a stay at home mom 95 percent of the marriage, by choice. We lived within a tighter budget to do so, and it was super tight. As long as husband worked, child support was paid on time all the time. If he became unemployed.....well, we had no money coming in, so there was none going out either. Soon as he was back to work CS was increased to pay up the back support. State of Mo later ripped us off to the tune of 20k.......and had to pay us back a couple of years later when Ohio called them out on it. </p><p></p><p>As you said, the man makes more than you do. <strong>Stop loaning him money</strong>. Make sure he stays on top of the support and you do what you need to do to meet your monthly budget.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 555848, member: 84"] 1. You never loan an ex money 2. Ex's new spouse has nothing to do with child support and is not your concern. If ex doesn't have the gas money to pick up the kids, simple......he doesn't get the kids. Not your problem. If he has an issue with this you can be honest and say you don't have the spare money either. If he wants to see them or whatever, he can figure it out. I know you're frustrated as hades, but the remark about the new wife rankled. husband had to pay support on katie. I was the "new wife" and a stay at home mom 95 percent of the marriage, by choice. We lived within a tighter budget to do so, and it was super tight. As long as husband worked, child support was paid on time all the time. If he became unemployed.....well, we had no money coming in, so there was none going out either. Soon as he was back to work CS was increased to pay up the back support. State of Mo later ripped us off to the tune of 20k.......and had to pay us back a couple of years later when Ohio called them out on it. As you said, the man makes more than you do. [B]Stop loaning him money[/B]. Make sure he stays on top of the support and you do what you need to do to meet your monthly budget. [/QUOTE]
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