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<blockquote data-quote="totoro" data-source="post: 27942" data-attributes="member: 3155"><p>Hi I just wanted to welcome you and let you know that you have come to a good place. I would take the advice suggested... </p><p>My difficult child used to choke when she was very little but it wasn't out of anger it was more of a sensory regulation, she had no control over her boundaries, she still doesn't but is a bit better, she would grab other children and look like she was choking them, but she was trying to get close to them and hold them or hug them, without really knowing how or when to stop or how much pressure etc. She would end up scaring them and choking at times because she was so excited. It was so hard on her because she was excited and wanted to touch and be near others. </p><p></p><p>We had to teach her "soft hands" and show her how to hold a doll and other things softly... she still gets excited and is overly agressive/touchy... We would also stroke her hands very softly to show her soft. We also had to do a lot of squeezing to her body for joint proprioception, she has a lack of connection to her joints and is unable to really feel how much pressure she is applying... These are all sensory Intergration disorder things.</p><p></p><p>I don't know if any of this will help or if it applies, just a thought. </p><p>Hang in there.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="totoro, post: 27942, member: 3155"] Hi I just wanted to welcome you and let you know that you have come to a good place. I would take the advice suggested... My difficult child used to choke when she was very little but it wasn't out of anger it was more of a sensory regulation, she had no control over her boundaries, she still doesn't but is a bit better, she would grab other children and look like she was choking them, but she was trying to get close to them and hold them or hug them, without really knowing how or when to stop or how much pressure etc. She would end up scaring them and choking at times because she was so excited. It was so hard on her because she was excited and wanted to touch and be near others. We had to teach her "soft hands" and show her how to hold a doll and other things softly... she still gets excited and is overly agressive/touchy... We would also stroke her hands very softly to show her soft. We also had to do a lot of squeezing to her body for joint proprioception, she has a lack of connection to her joints and is unable to really feel how much pressure she is applying... These are all sensory Intergration disorder things. I don't know if any of this will help or if it applies, just a thought. Hang in there. [/QUOTE]
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