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He wants - I don't know what
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<blockquote data-quote="susiestar" data-source="post: 364974" data-attributes="member: 1233"><p>I completely understand what you are saying. It seems the money is a way to draw you into drama. No way you could have that end positively. It is very inappropriate for you to be at the first meetings with his therapist. HE needs to do that by himself. They are HIS issues to deal with. I know there was koi in the past history with your kids, but this is not th way for him to handle it. IF he had a clear and specific thing that he needed help with then MAYBE going to a session with his therapist at some future time would not be out of line. NOT to therapize you, but to maybe make sure that his perceptions of past events were in line with reality. Often what a child perceives is far from the truth and can hinder therapy.</p><p></p><p>But mostly he needs to focus on himself. Misleading you about having been in therapy is not cool. Whether he wants to or not, he must pick up the reins of his life and lead it. Refusing to get drawn in is a good thing for all of you.</p><p></p><p>I am sorry he is struggling so. It is good that he is going to see a therapist. I hope it helps him. </p><p></p><p>{{{{{hugs}}}}}</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="susiestar, post: 364974, member: 1233"] I completely understand what you are saying. It seems the money is a way to draw you into drama. No way you could have that end positively. It is very inappropriate for you to be at the first meetings with his therapist. HE needs to do that by himself. They are HIS issues to deal with. I know there was koi in the past history with your kids, but this is not th way for him to handle it. IF he had a clear and specific thing that he needed help with then MAYBE going to a session with his therapist at some future time would not be out of line. NOT to therapize you, but to maybe make sure that his perceptions of past events were in line with reality. Often what a child perceives is far from the truth and can hinder therapy. But mostly he needs to focus on himself. Misleading you about having been in therapy is not cool. Whether he wants to or not, he must pick up the reins of his life and lead it. Refusing to get drawn in is a good thing for all of you. I am sorry he is struggling so. It is good that he is going to see a therapist. I hope it helps him. {{{{{hugs}}}}} [/QUOTE]
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