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<blockquote data-quote="SuZir" data-source="post: 532279" data-attributes="member: 14557"><p>Isn't it lovely how when they are over it, everyone else should also be?</p><p></p><p>Maybe it is time to tell him "Welcome to the real world, dearie" Sorry doesn't make up a lot in the end. And if used too often without backing it up, it will become meaningless. In big things in life, it is not about what you say, it is what you do. You can tell someone you love them, or that you are sorry, until you are blue , but it doesn't matter a whiff, if your actions are not showing the same. We have had some success with the difficult child (and even more so with the easy child) in making them make up things, make amends, have do overs and be given an opportunity to make it right again. At times the sorry was too difficult, or too easy, word for difficult child. And being able to make it right again in some more concrete way meant a lot.</p><p></p><p>difficult children, or PCs, or any human beings, can not often promise to never do something again and be sure about that, but they are often able to make up their screw ups and hurtful words and actions. And having that possibility to repair things they broke does help also them to feel better of themselves.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="SuZir, post: 532279, member: 14557"] Isn't it lovely how when they are over it, everyone else should also be? Maybe it is time to tell him "Welcome to the real world, dearie" Sorry doesn't make up a lot in the end. And if used too often without backing it up, it will become meaningless. In big things in life, it is not about what you say, it is what you do. You can tell someone you love them, or that you are sorry, until you are blue , but it doesn't matter a whiff, if your actions are not showing the same. We have had some success with the difficult child (and even more so with the easy child) in making them make up things, make amends, have do overs and be given an opportunity to make it right again. At times the sorry was too difficult, or too easy, word for difficult child. And being able to make it right again in some more concrete way meant a lot. difficult children, or PCs, or any human beings, can not often promise to never do something again and be sure about that, but they are often able to make up their screw ups and hurtful words and actions. And having that possibility to repair things they broke does help also them to feel better of themselves. [/QUOTE]
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