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He Wants To nNow Why I'm Mad At Him
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<blockquote data-quote="TeDo" data-source="post: 532340"><p>I tell them the same thing Lavender but in the middle of a rage all rules, advice, and appropriateness go out the window. When they come back and calmly say sorry I simply reply "thanks for the apology but I still feel ......" I want them to know that the words are the right thing to do but that it doesn't make things back to normal. difficult child 1 thinks it should all be done and over with after he says sorry. I'm working on teaching him the whole point of view thing. If I were to tell him that he has to do x, y, or z to make me feel better, it will be totally over his head as to why it's his job to make me feel better. That whole concept is just foreign to him. After all, he doesn't get to tell me what to do to make HIM feel better.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="TeDo, post: 532340"] I tell them the same thing Lavender but in the middle of a rage all rules, advice, and appropriateness go out the window. When they come back and calmly say sorry I simply reply "thanks for the apology but I still feel ......" I want them to know that the words are the right thing to do but that it doesn't make things back to normal. difficult child 1 thinks it should all be done and over with after he says sorry. I'm working on teaching him the whole point of view thing. If I were to tell him that he has to do x, y, or z to make me feel better, it will be totally over his head as to why it's his job to make me feel better. That whole concept is just foreign to him. After all, he doesn't get to tell me what to do to make HIM feel better. [/QUOTE]
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