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<blockquote data-quote="Jena" data-source="post: 373846" data-attributes="member: 4514"><p>hi</p><p> </p><p>it's been a while since i've been here. I can relate so much to what you are saying about being you as i'm sure most of us can. yet im learning slowly i dont' want to give all of my being to difficult child anymore, nor should i have to. ive spent years doing the same walking away from jobs, lacking sleep, friendships fallen apart, finances well we won't even go there lol.</p><p> </p><p>i'm slowly learning that we have to stay true to us, dont' we? i mean yea i know the pain in the *ss appointments constantly, therapy, medication checks, school meetings. it's like a full time job. yet somewhere in all of that has gotta lie us, the us we were before the difficult child's entered our world. i think we should all spend time each day trying to find the us we used to be for ourselves. how we do this i have no freaking clue lol.</p><p> </p><p>you try it and please let me know how it is!! <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite1" alt=":)" title="Smile :)" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":)" /> i try a little everyday. difficult child doesn't like it, it's like she's jealous i have a life besides her.</p><p> </p><p>anyway i rambled i do that, hugs to you i'm glad you had that time to catch up with you, try to keep it up upon the return of your difficult child.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jena, post: 373846, member: 4514"] hi it's been a while since i've been here. I can relate so much to what you are saying about being you as i'm sure most of us can. yet im learning slowly i dont' want to give all of my being to difficult child anymore, nor should i have to. ive spent years doing the same walking away from jobs, lacking sleep, friendships fallen apart, finances well we won't even go there lol. i'm slowly learning that we have to stay true to us, dont' we? i mean yea i know the pain in the *ss appointments constantly, therapy, medication checks, school meetings. it's like a full time job. yet somewhere in all of that has gotta lie us, the us we were before the difficult child's entered our world. i think we should all spend time each day trying to find the us we used to be for ourselves. how we do this i have no freaking clue lol. you try it and please let me know how it is!! :) i try a little everyday. difficult child doesn't like it, it's like she's jealous i have a life besides her. anyway i rambled i do that, hugs to you i'm glad you had that time to catch up with you, try to keep it up upon the return of your difficult child. [/QUOTE]
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