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Heard from Gfg32 after a month of silence
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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 622383" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>Oh SS, I am sorry. These sucker punches are difficult to recover from, however, you sound okay, knowing this would occur prepared you a little bit for it. It still sucks though.</p><p></p><p>Someone once told me this which has always made so much sense to me, "engage with crazy people and you become crazy." If it were me, I would not engage at all. Not even to state my love as his mother for him. He is in a zone which you can't enter, it is some mental disorder and my belief, having lived so close to that zone all my life, is to keep your distance from it, it can burn you. Allow him to role through his threats and ignore it and continue on with your plans to go away and enjoy your life. You may have read Kathy's posts on the SA forum, her daughter recently did the exact same thing.........she is 28 and her parents stopped giving her anything, just like you did..........the result? A verbal attack with threats.</p><p></p><p> Step aside and allow the arrows to fly by. Perhaps, say a prayer, see him in the hands of your perception of a Higher Power............and let go. </p><p></p><p>Do your very best to do kind and nourishing things for yourself. husband too. Getting out of town is a huge help, so continue with that..........we do that continually, as each mile from home increases, I feel lighter and lighter. </p><p></p><p>Wishing you peace SS, and solace.............and laughter and joy..........go have some fun.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 622383, member: 13542"] Oh SS, I am sorry. These sucker punches are difficult to recover from, however, you sound okay, knowing this would occur prepared you a little bit for it. It still sucks though. Someone once told me this which has always made so much sense to me, "engage with crazy people and you become crazy." If it were me, I would not engage at all. Not even to state my love as his mother for him. He is in a zone which you can't enter, it is some mental disorder and my belief, having lived so close to that zone all my life, is to keep your distance from it, it can burn you. Allow him to role through his threats and ignore it and continue on with your plans to go away and enjoy your life. You may have read Kathy's posts on the SA forum, her daughter recently did the exact same thing.........she is 28 and her parents stopped giving her anything, just like you did..........the result? A verbal attack with threats. Step aside and allow the arrows to fly by. Perhaps, say a prayer, see him in the hands of your perception of a Higher Power............and let go. Do your very best to do kind and nourishing things for yourself. husband too. Getting out of town is a huge help, so continue with that..........we do that continually, as each mile from home increases, I feel lighter and lighter. Wishing you peace SS, and solace.............and laughter and joy..........go have some fun. [/QUOTE]
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