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<blockquote data-quote="Hound dog" data-source="post: 406676" data-attributes="member: 84"><p>First a correction. Exit date is march 27th. Wow in my opinion they're being awfully generous. </p><p></p><p>She mailed me again. (we're on a roll I guess lol ) Jest of it was that they are about to close Alex's SSD case. Which to me means he will be turned down. I have a really hard time believing they are going to give him disability based only on a school evaluation......1 evaluation done by another state no less. He has not seen a doctor nor had any evaluations done here. She has set everything, their entire future on this child getting disability. Pardon me while I puke. Gag Gag GAG! OMG! Are you serious?? I have to continually remind myself that I didn't get much hands on raising of this child, really I do.</p><p></p><p>So, we've used up our welfare, hardship, and probably every charity known to man. So now.........<strong>now</strong> we are <strong>motivated</strong> to get our disabled son disability so we can live off his check. I swear, I kid you not she put it that way herself. His disability is our only hope of getting an apartment yadda yadda. I swear by all that is holy in this world had she been sitting in front of me at the moment my hands would have been around her neck. I only have so much self control and that would have done me in. </p><p></p><p>She made the comment that the shelter couldn't possibly throw them out with a disabled child, that it made them look bad enough to throw them out into the street with children as it was, but it would be so much worse with a disabled child...........</p><p></p><p>I had to literally get up and walk away from the computer........walk around the room before I could sit back down again. </p><p></p><p>Then she said that she hopes wilmington shelter has an opening by their exit date.</p><p></p><p>By that point I was ready to pound my head into the keyboard out of pure........aw heck I'm not even sure what.....rage, frustration, amazement.........</p><p></p><p>I have not answered. I'm afraid to. What I have to say I want to be face to face. It will be said at that mother daughter lunch talk thing. </p><p></p><p>It will not look bad that the shelter throws them out because you stupid lil idiot those children will NOT be going with you. Can you really truly be so naive, stupid......or whatever?? </p><p></p><p>You were already told this would be your last shelter. Do you believe some magic fairy is going to come and rescue you and change all the rules for just your family?? omg</p><p></p><p>She is either living in her own little world or is so disillusional..........or both..........or whatever. </p><p></p><p>I will do the mom talk because I feel I have to at the very least try. I don't expect it to make one bit of difference but I plan to use every single piece of information ect I have at my disposal to drive the points home to her. It will be a enormous walk up call. I will not be pulling any punches. I'll be doing the warrior mom role full tilt. She will either get it........or not. </p><p></p><p>After that I am so past done attempting to help Her. If that doesn't reach her she will have to find her own way or be stuck in this life forever. I will let it Go.</p><p></p><p>So after this............went upstairs to attempt to sleep yet again. Of course I failed miserably although I did relax enough to get rid of a headache and some horrid muscle aches.</p><p></p><p>Out of the blue it hits me. I can so fit 3 grandkids and Nichole and Aubrey very easily into the house. No clue where it came from as I was totally thinking about Nichole's baby shower at the time. lol (you'd not believe the random thoughts that go through a fevered brain deprived of sleep)</p><p></p><p>So maybe my brain is not quite to the point of overriding my heart just yet. Oh well. It will be what it will be. Things happen the way they're supposed to happen for the most part, it will play out the way it's intended in the end.</p><p></p><p>And Janet........he could possibly get those types of jobs except he refuses to look for them. She refuses to look at ALL. sigh</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Hound dog, post: 406676, member: 84"] First a correction. Exit date is march 27th. Wow in my opinion they're being awfully generous. She mailed me again. (we're on a roll I guess lol ) Jest of it was that they are about to close Alex's SSD case. Which to me means he will be turned down. I have a really hard time believing they are going to give him disability based only on a school evaluation......1 evaluation done by another state no less. He has not seen a doctor nor had any evaluations done here. She has set everything, their entire future on this child getting disability. Pardon me while I puke. Gag Gag GAG! OMG! Are you serious?? I have to continually remind myself that I didn't get much hands on raising of this child, really I do. So, we've used up our welfare, hardship, and probably every charity known to man. So now.........[B]now[/B] we are [B]motivated[/B] to get our disabled son disability so we can live off his check. I swear, I kid you not she put it that way herself. His disability is our only hope of getting an apartment yadda yadda. I swear by all that is holy in this world had she been sitting in front of me at the moment my hands would have been around her neck. I only have so much self control and that would have done me in. She made the comment that the shelter couldn't possibly throw them out with a disabled child, that it made them look bad enough to throw them out into the street with children as it was, but it would be so much worse with a disabled child........... I had to literally get up and walk away from the computer........walk around the room before I could sit back down again. Then she said that she hopes wilmington shelter has an opening by their exit date. By that point I was ready to pound my head into the keyboard out of pure........aw heck I'm not even sure what.....rage, frustration, amazement......... I have not answered. I'm afraid to. What I have to say I want to be face to face. It will be said at that mother daughter lunch talk thing. It will not look bad that the shelter throws them out because you stupid lil idiot those children will NOT be going with you. Can you really truly be so naive, stupid......or whatever?? You were already told this would be your last shelter. Do you believe some magic fairy is going to come and rescue you and change all the rules for just your family?? omg She is either living in her own little world or is so disillusional..........or both..........or whatever. I will do the mom talk because I feel I have to at the very least try. I don't expect it to make one bit of difference but I plan to use every single piece of information ect I have at my disposal to drive the points home to her. It will be a enormous walk up call. I will not be pulling any punches. I'll be doing the warrior mom role full tilt. She will either get it........or not. After that I am so past done attempting to help Her. If that doesn't reach her she will have to find her own way or be stuck in this life forever. I will let it Go. So after this............went upstairs to attempt to sleep yet again. Of course I failed miserably although I did relax enough to get rid of a headache and some horrid muscle aches. Out of the blue it hits me. I can so fit 3 grandkids and Nichole and Aubrey very easily into the house. No clue where it came from as I was totally thinking about Nichole's baby shower at the time. lol (you'd not believe the random thoughts that go through a fevered brain deprived of sleep) So maybe my brain is not quite to the point of overriding my heart just yet. Oh well. It will be what it will be. Things happen the way they're supposed to happen for the most part, it will play out the way it's intended in the end. And Janet........he could possibly get those types of jobs except he refuses to look for them. She refuses to look at ALL. sigh [/QUOTE]
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