Thank you all so very much for your support and kind words, I live In the North of England, even though I aint seen my ex in over 20 years, is it still clessed as abuse, even if hes still poisioning my three elder sons minds ? didnt look at it like this, I have 3 sons to my ex husband.. 26, 25 and 23 year old men now. all doing so well, Oldest has a Biology degree, the middle son is a musician, and my 3rd son is doing a unerversity course doing Tv and film making.. there dad aint done much for them, but to turn them all against me.. only the eldest takes notice and gets very annoyed, and our relationship is very strained.. sad really infact heartbreaking..
