Didnt last long, he asked for his game again, and yet again, I said NO, and he kept going on and on and on... in the end when he couldnt get his way again, he packed his things and ran of, i called the police, and they found him at his grandparents house, he stayed the night, and is coming home today.. i feel mentally exausted and so upset, also.. my 13 year old daughter is heading the same way, she is so full of anger, dont know why, because, im very placid and laid back, they get what they need, and sometimes at birthdays, i will buy them something special which they have really wanted, if i can afford to do that, i wouldnt say they are spoilt, but they are lucky kids, and i love them so much, always there for them, teaching them, guideing them, i just dont get why they are like this, is it just the ADHD ? my daughter was acting so vicious this morning, i was so upset, she had such a evil look in her eyes, this isnt the child ive brought up, i havnt brought her up with such anger and nastiness,, i feel upset ashamed angry... i felt like i wanted to grab hold of her and beat her, but i forsed myself to just sit quiet and egnor this nasty vicious behavier, im just finding it so hard today, these two kids are destroyng my life, i feel like running away