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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 344442" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm sorry if I came on harsh. I thought she spent years in foster care. However, she did have a tough life.</p><p></p><p>Have you looked into attachment disorder? Kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) really *don't* care. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is reactive attachment disorder and perhaps it would be a good idea to visit a therapist who is very well acquainted with this problem, which is very common in adopted kids, especially ones who did not have early stability.</p><p></p><p>Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) take a very special type of therapy. And the kids are very hard to reach on a deep level. They *can't* care. They have been through too much and have decided that there is only one person they can depend on: THEM. They have a lot of trouble really bonding and tend to be very charming when they want something. Lying is a coping mechanism. If she has Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE), to be honest, they don't learn by either example or repetition. In fact, alcohol abuse in utero can cause organic brain damage, which is what Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE) is. My son who was adopted at two had been exposed to both drugs and alcohol in utero. We dodged the Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE) bullet, but he has a high functioning form of autism. </p><p></p><p>Anyhow, just wanted to say I"m sorry.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 344442, member: 1550"] I'm sorry if I came on harsh. I thought she spent years in foster care. However, she did have a tough life. Have you looked into attachment disorder? Kids with Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) really *don't* care. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) is reactive attachment disorder and perhaps it would be a good idea to visit a therapist who is very well acquainted with this problem, which is very common in adopted kids, especially ones who did not have early stability. Reactive Attachment Disorder (RAD) take a very special type of therapy. And the kids are very hard to reach on a deep level. They *can't* care. They have been through too much and have decided that there is only one person they can depend on: THEM. They have a lot of trouble really bonding and tend to be very charming when they want something. Lying is a coping mechanism. If she has Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE), to be honest, they don't learn by either example or repetition. In fact, alcohol abuse in utero can cause organic brain damage, which is what Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE) is. My son who was adopted at two had been exposed to both drugs and alcohol in utero. We dodged the Fetal Alcohol Effects (FAE) bullet, but he has a high functioning form of autism. Anyhow, just wanted to say I"m sorry. [/QUOTE]
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