Thanks to all you wonderful ladies who replied. I still can't believe there are others out there like me! It's so nice to find a place where I can "talk" about all of this. I'm sure my co-workers wonder why I hardly ever talk about my son. I am a very private person, and it's all just so embarrassing and sad!
Midwest Mom -- yes, I have paid for multiple cell phones that he has broken. There will be no more. He currently doesn't have a cell phone, and oddly seems fine with it. He never even got a driver's license, so no car. I have thought about disability for him before. Think I will have him look into that.
Childofmine, glad your son is doing better. In spite of the broken hand (ouch!), it still sounds like he has made good progress.
Origami, thanks for your kind words, too. Yes, our sons' school experiences sound very similar. It is awful when you start getting the court notices in the mail, because you physically cannot MAKE your child go to school!
Have a wonderful evening all. Until next time..... 
