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<blockquote data-quote="200Meters" data-source="post: 749185" data-attributes="member: 23727"><p>Well said.</p><p></p><p>I don't know how much we can leave Youngest be. He phoned me on Sunday and said that his probation/welfare officer in Jerusalem wanted to see him at 13:30 yesterday afternoon. (We are due back in Jerusalem Magistrate Court tomorrow.) I drove up to where he, Oldest & Oldest's Ladyfriend live, picked them up & drove back to Jerusalem. The probation/welfare officer will recommend that he go to a day center (sort of a non-residential, out patient alternative to the hostel) in Jerusalem. If the judge approves, Youngest will go for an interview. If they accept him, he will have to move back home & Mrs. 200Meters & I will become his guardians again. For an initial period (how long this is depends on him) he would be under house arrest conditions. Meaning that either Mrs. 200Meters or I would have to drive him to the day center every morning & hand him over. We would also have to pick him up and take him home and one of us would have to stay with him. We're not sure how long the day is at the day center & when one of us would have to go get him. This could be a problem work-wise for us. This also means that Mrs. 200Meters and I could not go out together, even to synagogue on Shabbat (the Sabbath). We could sign someone else up as a guardian & this person could babysit Youngest while we are out.</p><p></p><p>(Aside #1: Why can' Youngest go to a day center near where Oldest & Ladyfriend live and continue staying with them? To mind him under house arrest conditions - Oldest & Ladyfriend can manage that. But to be responsible for taking Youngest to a day center at 07:30 (say) and picking him up at 15:00 (say), especially given their lack of a normal car, is beyond them.)</p><p></p><p>After meeting with the probation/welfare officer, I drove them back to where they live & then drove back to Jerusalem. I used up a whole tank of gas yesterday.</p><p></p><p>If we don't let him come back home, the alternative would be back to the remand center (at a large prison off towards Tel Aviv) where he was before going to his brother and he schlepped back and forth every day.</p><p></p><p>That is where we are now.</p><p></p><p>I will keep everyone posted.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="200Meters, post: 749185, member: 23727"] Well said. I don't know how much we can leave Youngest be. He phoned me on Sunday and said that his probation/welfare officer in Jerusalem wanted to see him at 13:30 yesterday afternoon. (We are due back in Jerusalem Magistrate Court tomorrow.) I drove up to where he, Oldest & Oldest's Ladyfriend live, picked them up & drove back to Jerusalem. The probation/welfare officer will recommend that he go to a day center (sort of a non-residential, out patient alternative to the hostel) in Jerusalem. If the judge approves, Youngest will go for an interview. If they accept him, he will have to move back home & Mrs. 200Meters & I will become his guardians again. For an initial period (how long this is depends on him) he would be under house arrest conditions. Meaning that either Mrs. 200Meters or I would have to drive him to the day center every morning & hand him over. We would also have to pick him up and take him home and one of us would have to stay with him. We're not sure how long the day is at the day center & when one of us would have to go get him. This could be a problem work-wise for us. This also means that Mrs. 200Meters and I could not go out together, even to synagogue on Shabbat (the Sabbath). We could sign someone else up as a guardian & this person could babysit Youngest while we are out. (Aside #1: Why can' Youngest go to a day center near where Oldest & Ladyfriend live and continue staying with them? To mind him under house arrest conditions - Oldest & Ladyfriend can manage that. But to be responsible for taking Youngest to a day center at 07:30 (say) and picking him up at 15:00 (say), especially given their lack of a normal car, is beyond them.) After meeting with the probation/welfare officer, I drove them back to where they live & then drove back to Jerusalem. I used up a whole tank of gas yesterday. If we don't let him come back home, the alternative would be back to the remand center (at a large prison off towards Tel Aviv) where he was before going to his brother and he schlepped back and forth every day. That is where we are now. I will keep everyone posted. [/QUOTE]
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