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<blockquote data-quote="slsh" data-source="post: 163084" data-attributes="member: 8"><p>This is a very serious situation that needs to be addressed swiftly. Not only are both your sons at risk, but I think you are at risk as well for being aware of the situation and not stopping it. I would also think therapist is possibly at risk for being aware of ongoing child abuse, which is what perpetrating is, and not reporting it.</p><p> </p><p>24/7 eyes on supervision is mandatory, in my humble opinion. Oldest boy cannot be out of an adult's line of sight, ever. It is a safety issue.</p><p> </p><p>I have questions about past abuse, diagnoses, and ages, but quite frankly, all that is secondary right now. The boys need supervision, period, 24/7. Whether it's inappropriate behavior and whether they know it, and regardless of what punishments are being enforced, none of that in my humble opinion is going to stop the behavior. </p><p> </p><p>Get the kids safe first.</p><p> </p><p>Then you need to find a therapist who specializes in sexually agressive youth and children - SACY is the term I'm familiar with from experience with my son- (how old are the boys?) as well as a psychiatrist who can do a full evaluation on them. </p><p> </p><p>But they simply *must* be supervised, constantly.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="slsh, post: 163084, member: 8"] This is a very serious situation that needs to be addressed swiftly. Not only are both your sons at risk, but I think you are at risk as well for being aware of the situation and not stopping it. I would also think therapist is possibly at risk for being aware of ongoing child abuse, which is what perpetrating is, and not reporting it. 24/7 eyes on supervision is mandatory, in my humble opinion. Oldest boy cannot be out of an adult's line of sight, ever. It is a safety issue. I have questions about past abuse, diagnoses, and ages, but quite frankly, all that is secondary right now. The boys need supervision, period, 24/7. Whether it's inappropriate behavior and whether they know it, and regardless of what punishments are being enforced, none of that in my humble opinion is going to stop the behavior. Get the kids safe first. Then you need to find a therapist who specializes in sexually agressive youth and children - SACY is the term I'm familiar with from experience with my son- (how old are the boys?) as well as a psychiatrist who can do a full evaluation on them. But they simply *must* be supervised, constantly. [/QUOTE]
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