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Help-Im waivering w no support from husband and a crying gtg on the streets
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<blockquote data-quote="Star*" data-source="post: 526746" data-attributes="member: 4964"><p>LY - </p><p></p><p>Find our archies here on DETACHMENT 101 - it's a lifesaver - and read it - read it - read it. </p><p></p><p>Phone call - </p><p></p><p>Mooooooom? (sniffles) Mom can I come by the house and get some of my clothes - all mine are dirty. </p><p>No, I'm doing something in a little bit - I'll be glad to drop some off to you - where can we meet? </p><p>Mommmmm? I really need my medications?......That's what I was really calling about - and food -Man I'm hungry - haven't eaten in days. </p><p>Gosh I'm sorry to hear that. You're a smart guy - you'll figure something out won't you? </p><p>I guess. </p><p>Okay where can I bring the clothes? I can do it between 4 and 5 - today only. </p><p></p><p>So you do - and he gets there and say "Can I have like 20 bucks?" </p><p>OH I'm sorry I didn't bring any cash. I forgot to bring my debit card too. </p><p>I'm glad to see you're staying clean. That's good - OH and I remembered to bring - SOAP and some deoderant -YOu didn't ask for them - but I thought you may need them since you're on your own. </p><p>(WHATEVER) </p><p>Slams door walks away OR </p><p>(Starts crying) - I want to come home - </p><p>WELL - I know you'll work this out You should be happy it's what you've wanted. (HUG) I have to go - LOVE YOU. </p><p></p><p>Calls crying - MOM - I've been in an accident - I'm at the hospital. (He's sitting in the ER room bcause he has no where to go and the sound of the PA system sounds desperate) </p><p>OMG what's wrong? </p><p>I got in a fight and I'm dying. </p><p>Okay - can I talk to the doctor? </p><p>He's not here. </p><p>OKay well when he comes in hand him the phone. Tell him to call me back. </p><p>(YOU DO NOT LOVE ME.....YOU WANT ME TO DIE) </p><p>Um - son - You're in an ER right? If you were dying they'd take care of you. This is how it works in the adult world. </p><p>Call me back later. Love you. </p><p></p><p>ALWAYS end with love you. DO NOT engage in battles or words - JUST SHort YOU GO BOY - detachment statements. </p><p></p><p>Let see - </p><p></p><p>MOM _ I'm in the park freezing - can you come get me? </p><p>Well I'mbusy right now......what happened to your friends that were taking you in? Can they get you a blanket until I can get there with some soup? You like soup right? i can probably do that later if you can hang on. </p><p>BLANKET? SOUP? SCREW YOU - I'm dying. </p><p>I don't think you're dying or you wouldn't be calling me on the phone - you'd be in the hospital - SAY how'd that ever work out the other night? I never heard from the doctor. You okay now? I'm glad. </p><p></p><p>Detachment 101 in the archives - </p><p></p><p></p><p>AND at 15 - you want to report him to the police EVERY DAY as a runaway to CYA - otherwise if something happens to him? YOU WILL BE CHARGED for child abuse and not reporting him. They don't HAVE to look for him - and may not - but you DO have to call and make a report every day. IT also starts a paper trail to keep in his file to show a judge he's incorrigible - which COULD get him services later. COULD - not will - COULD.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Star*, post: 526746, member: 4964"] LY - Find our archies here on DETACHMENT 101 - it's a lifesaver - and read it - read it - read it. Phone call - Mooooooom? (sniffles) Mom can I come by the house and get some of my clothes - all mine are dirty. No, I'm doing something in a little bit - I'll be glad to drop some off to you - where can we meet? Mommmmm? I really need my medications?......That's what I was really calling about - and food -Man I'm hungry - haven't eaten in days. Gosh I'm sorry to hear that. You're a smart guy - you'll figure something out won't you? I guess. Okay where can I bring the clothes? I can do it between 4 and 5 - today only. So you do - and he gets there and say "Can I have like 20 bucks?" OH I'm sorry I didn't bring any cash. I forgot to bring my debit card too. I'm glad to see you're staying clean. That's good - OH and I remembered to bring - SOAP and some deoderant -YOu didn't ask for them - but I thought you may need them since you're on your own. (WHATEVER) Slams door walks away OR (Starts crying) - I want to come home - WELL - I know you'll work this out You should be happy it's what you've wanted. (HUG) I have to go - LOVE YOU. Calls crying - MOM - I've been in an accident - I'm at the hospital. (He's sitting in the ER room bcause he has no where to go and the sound of the PA system sounds desperate) OMG what's wrong? I got in a fight and I'm dying. Okay - can I talk to the doctor? He's not here. OKay well when he comes in hand him the phone. Tell him to call me back. (YOU DO NOT LOVE ME.....YOU WANT ME TO DIE) Um - son - You're in an ER right? If you were dying they'd take care of you. This is how it works in the adult world. Call me back later. Love you. ALWAYS end with love you. DO NOT engage in battles or words - JUST SHort YOU GO BOY - detachment statements. Let see - MOM _ I'm in the park freezing - can you come get me? Well I'mbusy right now......what happened to your friends that were taking you in? Can they get you a blanket until I can get there with some soup? You like soup right? i can probably do that later if you can hang on. BLANKET? SOUP? SCREW YOU - I'm dying. I don't think you're dying or you wouldn't be calling me on the phone - you'd be in the hospital - SAY how'd that ever work out the other night? I never heard from the doctor. You okay now? I'm glad. Detachment 101 in the archives - AND at 15 - you want to report him to the police EVERY DAY as a runaway to CYA - otherwise if something happens to him? YOU WILL BE CHARGED for child abuse and not reporting him. They don't HAVE to look for him - and may not - but you DO have to call and make a report every day. IT also starts a paper trail to keep in his file to show a judge he's incorrigible - which COULD get him services later. COULD - not will - COULD. [/QUOTE]
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