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<blockquote data-quote="klmno" data-source="post: 182864" data-attributes="member: 3699"><p>Susie, that isn't what is going onn now- that is what was going on last spring (2007), which lead me to block bro's phone number from our phone. My bro told ME that he wanted to provide difficult child condoms, I said no. So, bro would call difficult child and tell difficult child to call him when I wasn't around and that he would never tell me what difficult child told him. Then he helped difficult child set up a myspace and other stuff, then told GAL that I was allowing difficult child to do these things- the very things that I had said "no" to, and that bro went behind my back to help difficult child do- claiming all along to everyone that he actions were out of love for difficult child.</p><p></p><p>Anyway, at that time, difficult child was 12 yo. The age of consent is 13 yo for both boys and girls here. I was a lot more concerned morally and legally about a 12 and 10 yo having sex then I was about any "right" my bro or my son had to communicate with each other. (by the way- I talked with the girl's parents and we stopped things from going futher- since difficult child was on a monitor at the time and they never had any time alone together, we are sure it never transpired- she had been coming on to him and we all knew that- it wasn't him trying to mess with her until she started talking to him about being nekky- personnaly, I think she must have been abused at home, or at least exposed to a lot that she shouldn't have at some point- she knew way more about sex than my son did because I started "overhearing" their phone calls- that lead me to go have a talk with her parents) I started looking into having charges filed against my bro for contributing to the delinquency of a minor, but then found out he had filed for custody. I was advised not to pursue charges then because it would look like retaliation, but I think my bro dropping the custody case had something to do with him figuring out that he wasn't going to end up looking as good as he thought in court. </p><p></p><p>Anyway, I read the cards from him because IF he ever said anything pursuading difficult child to do anything wrong, I could have charges filed now. My attny told bro's attny last year that charges for deflammation of character (mine), harassment, contributing to delinquency, etc, whatever charge applied, would be filed if bro continued like he had been. So, these cards are written asking difficult child to call him and saying things like "he's sorry our family is such a mess, he can't help it, and he can't help how difficult child's mom (me) feels". And, gives him his phone number every time. difficult child hasn't wanted to contact him since last summer, and he told him so last summer.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="klmno, post: 182864, member: 3699"] Susie, that isn't what is going onn now- that is what was going on last spring (2007), which lead me to block bro's phone number from our phone. My bro told ME that he wanted to provide difficult child condoms, I said no. So, bro would call difficult child and tell difficult child to call him when I wasn't around and that he would never tell me what difficult child told him. Then he helped difficult child set up a myspace and other stuff, then told GAL that I was allowing difficult child to do these things- the very things that I had said "no" to, and that bro went behind my back to help difficult child do- claiming all along to everyone that he actions were out of love for difficult child. Anyway, at that time, difficult child was 12 yo. The age of consent is 13 yo for both boys and girls here. I was a lot more concerned morally and legally about a 12 and 10 yo having sex then I was about any "right" my bro or my son had to communicate with each other. (by the way- I talked with the girl's parents and we stopped things from going futher- since difficult child was on a monitor at the time and they never had any time alone together, we are sure it never transpired- she had been coming on to him and we all knew that- it wasn't him trying to mess with her until she started talking to him about being nekky- personnaly, I think she must have been abused at home, or at least exposed to a lot that she shouldn't have at some point- she knew way more about sex than my son did because I started "overhearing" their phone calls- that lead me to go have a talk with her parents) I started looking into having charges filed against my bro for contributing to the delinquency of a minor, but then found out he had filed for custody. I was advised not to pursue charges then because it would look like retaliation, but I think my bro dropping the custody case had something to do with him figuring out that he wasn't going to end up looking as good as he thought in court. Anyway, I read the cards from him because IF he ever said anything pursuading difficult child to do anything wrong, I could have charges filed now. My attny told bro's attny last year that charges for deflammation of character (mine), harassment, contributing to delinquency, etc, whatever charge applied, would be filed if bro continued like he had been. So, these cards are written asking difficult child to call him and saying things like "he's sorry our family is such a mess, he can't help it, and he can't help how difficult child's mom (me) feels". And, gives him his phone number every time. difficult child hasn't wanted to contact him since last summer, and he told him so last summer. [/QUOTE]
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