Hi all I have a child who is 6 years old , i have tried everything in my power to resolve this. This afternoon my son had asked to goto the park i said yes after we get home. So we get home and he runs outside to get his soccerball. Little cutie . He came in and i was making a coffee and said i thought we were going to the park i said yes let daddy have a coffee then we will go. He grab the broom and was waving it around and i shrugged it off and told him that he would not hit me you would not hurt daddys feelings i turned my back. Then whack straight into my back i composed myself. I composed my self and told him to go to his room we are not going to the park then he ran up and was hitting me in my back. Anyhow this is one episode of many yesterday he was pulling kids shirts at school because they wouldnt let him play disrespectful towards his teachers. Kicks his brothers when he feels like it swears every name under the sun. Wife tells me on the phone its all my fault i brought him up like this . I said to her everything to do with him i deal with getting him ready when we go out to getting him ready before he goes to bed. You dont help out at all and yet you yell at me when he plays up and tell me i dont disaplin him. I am a strong person highly confident in my life and job. Me and my son we do have a bond that is strong we call each other thunder buddies. And this afternoon i sat on the lounge and the little one was out the back playing with his older brothers. My wife sat near me and i thought of my thunder buddy and i started to cry a really deep cry. My wife asks me whats wrong and i said what do you mean what is wrong .. i said i cant handle this anymore. And cried more she called the little one up from outside and he seen that i was crying and mummy told him he hurt daddys heart. He has not left my side for the last 2 hrs. And keeps asking me daddy why are you broken . I felt this did not need to be seen by the kids. I also have a 11 year old that is currently back chatting and repeatly asking the same question after i answer the first time. My head is spinning i look at the little one and feel disgusted. I feel the need to run away but i am a fighter one of my strengths is failure i will never fail if i do i challenge myself again. The eldest he works his 16 and he is doing good with him self My relationship feels like the wife has no time for me. Fitness and her books is what is the most important to her. The sex life aha what sex life and if it is to happen its me massage her and yeah .. Sorry for this ...... i feel my world is falling down and the only time i am happy is when i am at work.