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<blockquote data-quote="gwenny" data-source="post: 245684" data-attributes="member: 6852"><p>Thank you to everyone who replied to my plea for help!! I have to say I feel so overwhelmed. I sometimes feel like I'm going crazy myself and wonder if its not me.. Well there is no mental illness on either side, (although I feel his bio-mom really contributes to his problems) she just sent him some magazines Cosmo, More (these were about women problems, sex and so on. This is not helping him as I wouldnt let my 15 year old daughter read that smut. My husband and I are sometimes on the same page and other times were football fields away from being untied. He is having a hard time with excepting his son is mentally ill. </p><p> </p><p>I just don't think I can hold on to my marriage for much longer. I feel that when he does something to me my husband grounds him and than later lets him off. But if it affects my husband he will follow through. My husband has threatened a million times to have him locked up and never does. When we had him comitted the last time it took me packing my bags and my sons bag and the mention of divorce for him to take action. He was comitted for 7 days where he "moonlighted" the term the dr used. He said he just didnt want to be put into the restraint room. </p><p> </p><p>I had him in school and went to the principle and vice principle to explain his conditions and told them that we need to know everthing he does as this needs to be relayed to his therapist. That never happened because he told them that we were abusive parents and enjoyed punishing him. So the last straw was when he threatened to send a girl home in a body bag, and not doing any school work and disrespectful to teachers. We have lots of documentation from his schools when he lived with his mom. He was facing expulsion there for cursing out the principle and given his past history they could and wanted to.</p><p> </p><p>I just want my life back. we cant go out without taking him with us, cant hire a babysitter(to affraid of what he could do). I'm just really fustrated, sad, and concerned. </p><p> </p><p>I also am disabled to to severe arthritis and in constant pain and have this to deal with on top of it.</p><p> </p><p>When my husband gets home from working a 14 hour day, and I have to complain about what he does, he's famous for saying "I just don't want to come home". I know its just fustration but I have been with him all day. My husband only has to deal with him for 2 hours a day. </p><p> </p><p>My stepson is on risperdone. He takes 1 1/2 at night and 1/2 in the morning. The psychiatric wants to see if this helps but it's not so we cant even touch any of the other issues. We are seeing a new therapist on Wed. I was also told that he is basically a sociopath but cant be labeled that until 18 years of age. Is this true? </p><p> </p><p>Also another huge concern is that he does not cry, not 1 tear. he's making sounds like hes crying but no tears!!whats that.</p><p> </p><p>Thank you all so much for such a warm welcome</p><p> </p><p>Donna</p><p> </p><p>Urr. sorry so much to say!! How can you disipline him?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gwenny, post: 245684, member: 6852"] Thank you to everyone who replied to my plea for help!! I have to say I feel so overwhelmed. I sometimes feel like I'm going crazy myself and wonder if its not me.. Well there is no mental illness on either side, (although I feel his bio-mom really contributes to his problems) she just sent him some magazines Cosmo, More (these were about women problems, sex and so on. This is not helping him as I wouldnt let my 15 year old daughter read that smut. My husband and I are sometimes on the same page and other times were football fields away from being untied. He is having a hard time with excepting his son is mentally ill. I just don't think I can hold on to my marriage for much longer. I feel that when he does something to me my husband grounds him and than later lets him off. But if it affects my husband he will follow through. My husband has threatened a million times to have him locked up and never does. When we had him comitted the last time it took me packing my bags and my sons bag and the mention of divorce for him to take action. He was comitted for 7 days where he "moonlighted" the term the dr used. He said he just didnt want to be put into the restraint room. I had him in school and went to the principle and vice principle to explain his conditions and told them that we need to know everthing he does as this needs to be relayed to his therapist. That never happened because he told them that we were abusive parents and enjoyed punishing him. So the last straw was when he threatened to send a girl home in a body bag, and not doing any school work and disrespectful to teachers. We have lots of documentation from his schools when he lived with his mom. He was facing expulsion there for cursing out the principle and given his past history they could and wanted to. I just want my life back. we cant go out without taking him with us, cant hire a babysitter(to affraid of what he could do). I'm just really fustrated, sad, and concerned. I also am disabled to to severe arthritis and in constant pain and have this to deal with on top of it. When my husband gets home from working a 14 hour day, and I have to complain about what he does, he's famous for saying "I just don't want to come home". I know its just fustration but I have been with him all day. My husband only has to deal with him for 2 hours a day. My stepson is on risperdone. He takes 1 1/2 at night and 1/2 in the morning. The psychiatric wants to see if this helps but it's not so we cant even touch any of the other issues. We are seeing a new therapist on Wed. I was also told that he is basically a sociopath but cant be labeled that until 18 years of age. Is this true? Also another huge concern is that he does not cry, not 1 tear. he's making sounds like hes crying but no tears!!whats that. Thank you all so much for such a warm welcome Donna Urr. sorry so much to say!! How can you disipline him? [/QUOTE]
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