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Help with- 1st violent outburst at school
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<blockquote data-quote="Andy" data-source="post: 256731" data-attributes="member: 5096"><p>Well, the teacher did handle this one wrong. You can ask the following questions of teacher or v.p.:</p><p> </p><p>1. Why was difficult child allowed to stay with the reading group if he was suppose to go to his afternoon teacher? </p><p> </p><p>2. What did the teacher do to intervene when he got mad at the boy the first time? How hard is it to find out why difficult child is mad and teach difficult child to politely ask about his papers or for his place back?</p><p> </p><p>3. difficult child was screaming and crying because he is feeling trapped at this point. His actions are scaring himself and instead of help, the teachers are clearing the room and doing nothing to try to calm him down.</p><p> </p><p>4. Very very very few elementary teachers are men. It would be very difficult to find one until middle school. Women teachers are just as capable as men to handle this situation. difficult child did not need to be put in his place, he needed some guidance.</p><p> </p><p>5. Your husband is correct that the whole thing was overblown. It could have been dealt with by having difficult child where he belonged (afternoon teacher) and with his first encounter with the other boy.</p><p> </p><p>6. OMG - NOW they decide to change how they handle difficult child? I would be asking in what way that would be? Are they able to be positive and try to guide difficult child instead of making it worse?</p><p> </p><p>7. I think teacher was looking for a way to keep difficult child out of the classroom with that unreasonable demand of catching up with a week's of homework. Were you aware he was so far behind? Shouldn't the teacher have brought that to your attention by the 2nd or 3rd day of late assignments?</p><p> </p><p>8. Do you have a parent/student handbook? If so, look up the discipline policy. If not, ask the secretary for a copy of it. I think you may need it to hold the school to the proper procedures of what may come. They may try to skip a few steps.</p><p> </p><p>I don't have experience with IEP's. Others will be along to help with that but I do think the above 8 issues need to be addressed ASAP.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Andy, post: 256731, member: 5096"] Well, the teacher did handle this one wrong. You can ask the following questions of teacher or v.p.: 1. Why was difficult child allowed to stay with the reading group if he was suppose to go to his afternoon teacher? 2. What did the teacher do to intervene when he got mad at the boy the first time? How hard is it to find out why difficult child is mad and teach difficult child to politely ask about his papers or for his place back? 3. difficult child was screaming and crying because he is feeling trapped at this point. His actions are scaring himself and instead of help, the teachers are clearing the room and doing nothing to try to calm him down. 4. Very very very few elementary teachers are men. It would be very difficult to find one until middle school. Women teachers are just as capable as men to handle this situation. difficult child did not need to be put in his place, he needed some guidance. 5. Your husband is correct that the whole thing was overblown. It could have been dealt with by having difficult child where he belonged (afternoon teacher) and with his first encounter with the other boy. 6. OMG - NOW they decide to change how they handle difficult child? I would be asking in what way that would be? Are they able to be positive and try to guide difficult child instead of making it worse? 7. I think teacher was looking for a way to keep difficult child out of the classroom with that unreasonable demand of catching up with a week's of homework. Were you aware he was so far behind? Shouldn't the teacher have brought that to your attention by the 2nd or 3rd day of late assignments? 8. Do you have a parent/student handbook? If so, look up the discipline policy. If not, ask the secretary for a copy of it. I think you may need it to hold the school to the proper procedures of what may come. They may try to skip a few steps. I don't have experience with IEP's. Others will be along to help with that but I do think the above 8 issues need to be addressed ASAP. [/QUOTE]
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