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Help with aggressive 4.5yr old after separation
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<blockquote data-quote="InsaneCdn" data-source="post: 604402" data-attributes="member: 11791"><p>Just curious. Why were you carrying a 4 year old at all? </p><p>That isn't meant to be a critical statement, but rather, to try to find out the "before" to this picture.</p><p>Because the "before" may give some insight into alternative approaches.</p><p> </p><p>We found we didn't have much success "getting rid of" unwanted behaviors. What we DID have success with was building new, better behaviors... and slowly, the old behaviors were not needed. But it takes a lot of work, and begins with a solid understanding of each and every scenario in detail - not at a broad level of "this is normal for a kid in this situation" but... from the first hint of "inappropriate" behavior... what is the sequence of events, and how can the initial behavior be headed off at the pass, or what rapid intervention can change the direction?</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="InsaneCdn, post: 604402, member: 11791"] Just curious. Why were you carrying a 4 year old at all? That isn't meant to be a critical statement, but rather, to try to find out the "before" to this picture. Because the "before" may give some insight into alternative approaches. We found we didn't have much success "getting rid of" unwanted behaviors. What we DID have success with was building new, better behaviors... and slowly, the old behaviors were not needed. But it takes a lot of work, and begins with a solid understanding of each and every scenario in detail - not at a broad level of "this is normal for a kid in this situation" but... from the first hint of "inappropriate" behavior... what is the sequence of events, and how can the initial behavior be headed off at the pass, or what rapid intervention can change the direction? [/QUOTE]
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