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<blockquote data-quote="gijane" data-source="post: 703980" data-attributes="member: 21121"><p>No, it doesn't sound right. But that is because his father was raised to have someone else clean up the spilled milk, as it were. I can guarantee that his father is not a molester of any sort. He is more lazy, making a decision to turn a blind eye to his son's behavior. While my son was at his house before all this, he gave him access to his computers because it meant he would not have to directly interact with his child. Computer time was like a free babysitter. And the more I insisted he monitored our son, the more freedom he allowed. He would not want to believe it could be as bad as I said - I'm a neurotic mother after all, trying to control how he spent time with his kids. My ex has always done the opposite of what people want from him - a sort of ODD. But it blew up in his face yesterday when he saw the images. And I know he was genuinely disturbed and had a wake up call. But that does not undo the damage the has been done. His trying to protect his son in whatever means possible, even if that means destroying evidence, is to him the only way he knows how to show "love."</p><p>I know it may seem harsh to call my son a sociopath. But knowing his father and how he manipulates (he really is one), it is not terribly surprising. As far as my ex and porn, he enjoyed looking at more S&M subject matter. Never, and I mean never, children. On my life I know this to be true.</p><p>My son is a victim, of course, but also suffers from horrific impulse control, and no doubt it was easy for this to escalate the way it did with little supervision. The real problem is the issue was minimized when it should not have been. And a 16 year old got in over his head. And now must face the law. If it will help him, then maybe it had to come to this.</p><p>Thank you again. You all are used to the battle scars of a less than ideal run in with parenthood. I couldn't have gone through the last 48 hours without you.</p><p>As much as I love my son, I can't ever ever condone this behavior. And I will make sure to keep him from ever acting out no matter what it takes.</p><p>I am not ready to see him now.</p><p>My other three children are happier than they have ever been. The atmosphere in my house has palpably changed. I hate to say it, but I feel like an evil entity has left. And now we can all breathe again.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="gijane, post: 703980, member: 21121"] No, it doesn't sound right. But that is because his father was raised to have someone else clean up the spilled milk, as it were. I can guarantee that his father is not a molester of any sort. He is more lazy, making a decision to turn a blind eye to his son's behavior. While my son was at his house before all this, he gave him access to his computers because it meant he would not have to directly interact with his child. Computer time was like a free babysitter. And the more I insisted he monitored our son, the more freedom he allowed. He would not want to believe it could be as bad as I said - I'm a neurotic mother after all, trying to control how he spent time with his kids. My ex has always done the opposite of what people want from him - a sort of ODD. But it blew up in his face yesterday when he saw the images. And I know he was genuinely disturbed and had a wake up call. But that does not undo the damage the has been done. His trying to protect his son in whatever means possible, even if that means destroying evidence, is to him the only way he knows how to show "love." I know it may seem harsh to call my son a sociopath. But knowing his father and how he manipulates (he really is one), it is not terribly surprising. As far as my ex and porn, he enjoyed looking at more S&M subject matter. Never, and I mean never, children. On my life I know this to be true. My son is a victim, of course, but also suffers from horrific impulse control, and no doubt it was easy for this to escalate the way it did with little supervision. The real problem is the issue was minimized when it should not have been. And a 16 year old got in over his head. And now must face the law. If it will help him, then maybe it had to come to this. Thank you again. You all are used to the battle scars of a less than ideal run in with parenthood. I couldn't have gone through the last 48 hours without you. As much as I love my son, I can't ever ever condone this behavior. And I will make sure to keep him from ever acting out no matter what it takes. I am not ready to see him now. My other three children are happier than they have ever been. The atmosphere in my house has palpably changed. I hate to say it, but I feel like an evil entity has left. And now we can all breathe again. [/QUOTE]
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