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<blockquote data-quote="Jungleland" data-source="post: 155873" data-attributes="member: 4598"><p>Aly will be 11 in a few weeks. But emotionally vasilates between 4 yo and 15 yo on any given day/moment. </p><p> </p><p>Blame is definetly NOT what we are after, they were ALL equal participants according to reports today from all of them on separate questionings. </p><p> </p><p>The 8 yo is DEFINETELY very dominant and bossy and Aly is constantly wanting to please her so she will play with her. </p><p> </p><p>But I am not blaming anyone in particular. Just heart broken this had to happen at all. We would just love for them to be able to be little girls and play little girl games, not adult stuff the second an adult is not watching them. </p><p> </p><p>H is being pretty cool about the whole thing, totally parenting Aly the way I would through this. She has lost alot of priveleges, such as the freedom to play outside without an adult with her. No more High School Musical books, movies, CD's as these all seem to stimulate inappropriate behavior within all the girls. Basically making the house a "G" rated house, and no TV at all right now. I am so proud of him for following through with this, I know it is not an easy task. Once she is allowed TV again, it will be restricted to preapproved appropriate shows and videos. </p><p> </p><p>Just trying to offer more "little girl fun stuff" and not allowing the more mature things she was being allowed to watch. </p><p> </p><p>This is all so sad and I feel so clueless as how else to handle this!</p><p> </p><p>Vickie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jungleland, post: 155873, member: 4598"] Aly will be 11 in a few weeks. But emotionally vasilates between 4 yo and 15 yo on any given day/moment. Blame is definetly NOT what we are after, they were ALL equal participants according to reports today from all of them on separate questionings. The 8 yo is DEFINETELY very dominant and bossy and Aly is constantly wanting to please her so she will play with her. But I am not blaming anyone in particular. Just heart broken this had to happen at all. We would just love for them to be able to be little girls and play little girl games, not adult stuff the second an adult is not watching them. H is being pretty cool about the whole thing, totally parenting Aly the way I would through this. She has lost alot of priveleges, such as the freedom to play outside without an adult with her. No more High School Musical books, movies, CD's as these all seem to stimulate inappropriate behavior within all the girls. Basically making the house a "G" rated house, and no TV at all right now. I am so proud of him for following through with this, I know it is not an easy task. Once she is allowed TV again, it will be restricted to preapproved appropriate shows and videos. Just trying to offer more "little girl fun stuff" and not allowing the more mature things she was being allowed to watch. This is all so sad and I feel so clueless as how else to handle this! Vickie [/QUOTE]
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