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<blockquote data-quote="Jungleland" data-source="post: 156055" data-attributes="member: 4598"><p>Well, after much thought, here is my reply.</p><p> </p><p>I guess I have changed in the last year or so. I have finally crawled out from being a victim, allowing Aly to disrespect me, physically hurt me, emotionally and physically attack me, on a daily basis. I hit that peverbial line in the sand and had to get J and myself out of there. If that seems like J and I are "living the good life", so be it. I was keeping her and myself safe from more abuse.</p><p> </p><p>I tell Aly on a daily basis how much I love and miss her. I see her 3-4 times a week when H and she visit or I go there for dinner. I am always loving towards her, how can I not be, I adore her! That is why I am so hurt by these posts. Sorry if my posting has sounded otherwise, I do love Aly very, very much, just emotionally/physically need this break.</p><p> </p><p>Aly and her dad have a wonderful relationship, they are very close. And she is doing better in school now that the tensions of her dealing with me and J at home are gone. Not sure what else to do, we had tried everything else while living under the same roof. We are trying to work on things and are all in therapy together and individually. </p><p> </p><p>Not even sure why I feel the need to explain myself, except that this place has been my soft place to land for a very long time and I would miss you all so much if I left, which was my first thought. But, I see how you all could come to the conclusions you have, I have changed, gotten stronger in so many ways, ways I pray will be a good thing in the long run. Aly knows that she can no longer disrespect me or H and still get whatever she wants. Life will not be like that for her when she is on her own, we are trying hard to teach her to respect adults and others.</p><p> </p><p>Anyways, thinking I will take a break from here for a bit. Still thinking on all things said and will mull it over for a bit longer.</p><p> </p><p>Thank you all for caring enough for Aly to bring this all up to me, I can see how it must look to y'all.</p><p> </p><p>Vickie</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Jungleland, post: 156055, member: 4598"] Well, after much thought, here is my reply. I guess I have changed in the last year or so. I have finally crawled out from being a victim, allowing Aly to disrespect me, physically hurt me, emotionally and physically attack me, on a daily basis. I hit that peverbial line in the sand and had to get J and myself out of there. If that seems like J and I are "living the good life", so be it. I was keeping her and myself safe from more abuse. I tell Aly on a daily basis how much I love and miss her. I see her 3-4 times a week when H and she visit or I go there for dinner. I am always loving towards her, how can I not be, I adore her! That is why I am so hurt by these posts. Sorry if my posting has sounded otherwise, I do love Aly very, very much, just emotionally/physically need this break. Aly and her dad have a wonderful relationship, they are very close. And she is doing better in school now that the tensions of her dealing with me and J at home are gone. Not sure what else to do, we had tried everything else while living under the same roof. We are trying to work on things and are all in therapy together and individually. Not even sure why I feel the need to explain myself, except that this place has been my soft place to land for a very long time and I would miss you all so much if I left, which was my first thought. But, I see how you all could come to the conclusions you have, I have changed, gotten stronger in so many ways, ways I pray will be a good thing in the long run. Aly knows that she can no longer disrespect me or H and still get whatever she wants. Life will not be like that for her when she is on her own, we are trying hard to teach her to respect adults and others. Anyways, thinking I will take a break from here for a bit. Still thinking on all things said and will mull it over for a bit longer. Thank you all for caring enough for Aly to bring this all up to me, I can see how it must look to y'all. Vickie [/QUOTE]
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