Hi, I am new here and have never infact been on any forum. I have 2 kids (boys) aged 8 and 2. 8 yr old has been diagnosed ADHD/ODD borderline CD although I honestly doubt if he is borderline. I dont know what to do with him or for him. Everyday it is a battle to get ready for school, to do homework, to do anything. And if the arguing wasn't already getting to me then there is the physical aspect of it all. He may only be 8, but he is very tall and strong for his age (and I am not shrinking violet) so when he is grabbing onto me and hitting, kicking etc it hurts. I know I am rambling and I apologise to anyone reading this, but I just honestly am at the end of my rope. I have taken everything (almost) out of his room including belts incase he gets the idea to do something silly, the psychiatric told me to put a lock on his door and the paed gave me tablets to give him to help him calm down. I have done all this, but what happens when he wont take his medications and I have a 2 yr old he is threatening. Please help me. I am lost and starting to get afraid of the outcome.