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<blockquote data-quote="kitty9259" data-source="post: 64600" data-attributes="member: 3908"><p>The loan is over paid, paid up until December, with Billy's money. I managed his money. Right now he is not paying any bills, just rent to Church Family so he can sleep on their sofa.There is some damage to the truck at this point, due to his carelessness and abuse of the vehicle..it could only be sold for amount due on it at best, and with his credit so messed up since he left no bank/finacial institute will give him a dime now. I'm having deep conflict on this,because he worked hard to save for this truck at a time when he was mentally in a lot better state and it was a good time for us all.I was proud of him. Won't it make me a horrible mother and his anger towards me justified if I hand the truck over to the man who did nothing but point out his flaws( to me) for 7 yrs.? Billy won't talk to me, I am unable to reach him physically or emotionally.Everyone talks about "detaching"----but how do you do that??? He was my 3lb baby, my mom died when I was 10 yrs old and I had no idea if anything I was ever doing was right.I did my best. I spent ever waking moment protecting this child, bailing this child out of tight jams, trying to reach a place of reason in him..... only to realize that I have failed. The right thing to do is give the truck to ex absolutely... but then Billy will hate me and it will always be between us.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="kitty9259, post: 64600, member: 3908"] The loan is over paid, paid up until December, with Billy's money. I managed his money. Right now he is not paying any bills, just rent to Church Family so he can sleep on their sofa.There is some damage to the truck at this point, due to his carelessness and abuse of the vehicle..it could only be sold for amount due on it at best, and with his credit so messed up since he left no bank/finacial institute will give him a dime now. I'm having deep conflict on this,because he worked hard to save for this truck at a time when he was mentally in a lot better state and it was a good time for us all.I was proud of him. Won't it make me a horrible mother and his anger towards me justified if I hand the truck over to the man who did nothing but point out his flaws( to me) for 7 yrs.? Billy won't talk to me, I am unable to reach him physically or emotionally.Everyone talks about "detaching"----but how do you do that??? He was my 3lb baby, my mom died when I was 10 yrs old and I had no idea if anything I was ever doing was right.I did my best. I spent ever waking moment protecting this child, bailing this child out of tight jams, trying to reach a place of reason in him..... only to realize that I have failed. The right thing to do is give the truck to ex absolutely... but then Billy will hate me and it will always be between us. [/QUOTE]
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