I need everyone that cares to answer's help/opinion. When difficult child left 2 months ago, I made him leave his truck( tags about to expire n days, I was paying insur. and the truck is titled in both soon to be ex and difficult child's name. difficult child put 5k down on truck to purchase and made all payments,( or he gave me money and I payed all his bills because if it was up to him he'd be at gamestop buying games with all his $)I explained to ex about the problem, that I had truck in my posession to protect him,he understood but did say " I told you so about your kid" anyway, I brought truck to a friends about 45 mins. away, so difficult child couldn't get ahold of it or harass myself or ex, or vandelize our things in retaliation. She said she would hold it there as long as I needed it, ex canceled insurance. Now my friend wants it out, she was nice about it but I guess she thought it would only take a few weeks to resolve this. Since difficult child won't speak to me, I called easy child/difficult child Lissa to help step in, to call her brother and ask him what he wants to do, to please call me to wrap this up. She has given only a half hearted attempt to contact him, and Church Family is running interferance also. What now???? With no communication what choices do I have? I don't want to screw anyone over, but this is not MY responibility and with difficult child defaulting on student loans that I cosigned my finances are not such that I can aford his truck also. Thanks to all who answer, even though I'm new here, I feel like I have friends and support at the lowest time in my life.