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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 628418" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>Scared, tell your husband no, you are afraid of him and that the visit is supposed to be with HIM, not YOU and he won't even be around. Then plan to visit somebody or book a hotel, if you can afford it, for his entire visit. Your husband is still in denial and apparently is more concerned with not ticking off his clueless ex or else pretending SS is halfway normal and not dangerous than protecting YOU. Because you are in danger from him, you should be his first concern.</p><p></p><p>If he will not take care of your health and well being, YOU have to step up and be good to yourself and do it. This kid will eventually probably end up in some locked facility where he won't be able to do his laptop all day, but, until then, I really don't blame bio. mom for not forcing him to do anything. He is probably pretty big and strong now and, as you have said, he is dangerous. I would not force a dangerous twelve year old to brush his teeth or get off the laptop. Let's face it, in the back of her mind, bio. mom knows and she is not a fan of having a laptop bang her in the head and give her a concussion, which he very well might do if she tries to discipline him in a normal way.</p><p></p><p>Both of his bio. parents will probably get a wake up call by the police and in a very unpleasant and unexpected way. You, however, are the smart one and won't be surprised. You have plenty of my prayers. Have you ever thought about divorce? This man is not the guy you probably thought he was before you moved in with him. He doesn't seem to care about you at all.</p><p></p><p>This is not your average, every day step child.You did not create his issues and you can't fix them. And the bio's won't fix them. If he went to camp, he'd just be sent home. He wouldn't listen to their rules either.</p><p></p><p>Please don't put yourself in harm's way.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 628418, member: 1550"] Scared, tell your husband no, you are afraid of him and that the visit is supposed to be with HIM, not YOU and he won't even be around. Then plan to visit somebody or book a hotel, if you can afford it, for his entire visit. Your husband is still in denial and apparently is more concerned with not ticking off his clueless ex or else pretending SS is halfway normal and not dangerous than protecting YOU. Because you are in danger from him, you should be his first concern. If he will not take care of your health and well being, YOU have to step up and be good to yourself and do it. This kid will eventually probably end up in some locked facility where he won't be able to do his laptop all day, but, until then, I really don't blame bio. mom for not forcing him to do anything. He is probably pretty big and strong now and, as you have said, he is dangerous. I would not force a dangerous twelve year old to brush his teeth or get off the laptop. Let's face it, in the back of her mind, bio. mom knows and she is not a fan of having a laptop bang her in the head and give her a concussion, which he very well might do if she tries to discipline him in a normal way. Both of his bio. parents will probably get a wake up call by the police and in a very unpleasant and unexpected way. You, however, are the smart one and won't be surprised. You have plenty of my prayers. Have you ever thought about divorce? This man is not the guy you probably thought he was before you moved in with him. He doesn't seem to care about you at all. This is not your average, every day step child.You did not create his issues and you can't fix them. And the bio's won't fix them. If he went to camp, he'd just be sent home. He wouldn't listen to their rules either. Please don't put yourself in harm's way. [/QUOTE]
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