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<blockquote data-quote="scaredofhim" data-source="post: 630347" data-attributes="member: 17051"><p>Well the camp thing happened last week, sort of. First of all, bio mom lied to SS and told him he would be allowed to take his laptop and cell phone to camp, so he was willing to go. We had him that weekend and were to meet bio mom at the camp on Sunday evening. We get there, and the house parent sees the laptop and cell and says, "oh I am sorry sweetie but you are not allowed to have those things here." SS immediately went into meltdown mode, with bio mom lying through her teeth saying it was her understanding that he was allowed to bring them. The house parent tried to calm SS down and he was screaming and swinging his arms and stomping. She told bio mom and us to go ahead and leave and she would get him calmed down. Bio mom couldn't leave fast enough, she practically ran to her car and was out of there! But SS latched onto husband's arm and wailed "please don't leave me!!!!!! I don't want to stay here!!! But the house parent said go, so I pulled husband away from SS and led him to the car. husband was furious that bio mom lied to SS about being able to have the laptop at camp. Anyway, soon as we got in the car SS started calling husband's cell. He put it on mute and didn't answer. SS stayed at camp a day and a half and then the house parent called bio mom and told her to come and get him, he was causing too much disruption with his constant outbursts. As for the summer visit for SS at our house, it is not going to be 30 days because I refused to do it that long. So he will be here 19 days starting on the 16th of July. I am furious that I have to deal with this for even 19 days. As I mentioned before, husband is on second shift and will only be here around 4 hours a day and he is working Saturdays and overtime as well. Which means I am stuck having to deal with SS all day every day and until late at night. I am not happy about it, and a matter of fact I am very upset. I can tell you one thing, I don't intend to make SS's time here pleasant. I am not going to sit here and have SS online from the time he opens his eyes until he goes to bed late at night, not showering or brushing his teeth and only coming downstairs to ask for food. I will disconnect the router for several hours a day if I have to. And if I do that he will probably beg his mom to let him come home so with any luck he won't stay the whole 19 days. Ugh. I hate this so much. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> All I do is cry. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /></p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="scaredofhim, post: 630347, member: 17051"] Well the camp thing happened last week, sort of. First of all, bio mom lied to SS and told him he would be allowed to take his laptop and cell phone to camp, so he was willing to go. We had him that weekend and were to meet bio mom at the camp on Sunday evening. We get there, and the house parent sees the laptop and cell and says, "oh I am sorry sweetie but you are not allowed to have those things here." SS immediately went into meltdown mode, with bio mom lying through her teeth saying it was her understanding that he was allowed to bring them. The house parent tried to calm SS down and he was screaming and swinging his arms and stomping. She told bio mom and us to go ahead and leave and she would get him calmed down. Bio mom couldn't leave fast enough, she practically ran to her car and was out of there! But SS latched onto husband's arm and wailed "please don't leave me!!!!!! I don't want to stay here!!! But the house parent said go, so I pulled husband away from SS and led him to the car. husband was furious that bio mom lied to SS about being able to have the laptop at camp. Anyway, soon as we got in the car SS started calling husband's cell. He put it on mute and didn't answer. SS stayed at camp a day and a half and then the house parent called bio mom and told her to come and get him, he was causing too much disruption with his constant outbursts. As for the summer visit for SS at our house, it is not going to be 30 days because I refused to do it that long. So he will be here 19 days starting on the 16th of July. I am furious that I have to deal with this for even 19 days. As I mentioned before, husband is on second shift and will only be here around 4 hours a day and he is working Saturdays and overtime as well. Which means I am stuck having to deal with SS all day every day and until late at night. I am not happy about it, and a matter of fact I am very upset. I can tell you one thing, I don't intend to make SS's time here pleasant. I am not going to sit here and have SS online from the time he opens his eyes until he goes to bed late at night, not showering or brushing his teeth and only coming downstairs to ask for food. I will disconnect the router for several hours a day if I have to. And if I do that he will probably beg his mom to let him come home so with any luck he won't stay the whole 19 days. Ugh. I hate this so much. :( All I do is cry. :( [/QUOTE]
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