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<blockquote data-quote="BusynMember" data-source="post: 630507" data-attributes="member: 1550"><p>I'm sorry. I have tried to help. Tried HARD to help. I can't anymore.</p><p></p><p>I did not mean you are weak. I am simply saying that if you don't change what you do, nothing in your marriage will change. And you do know that you are afraid of SS and your husband does not seem to acknowledge this. I did not mean to hurt you; just frustrated that you will not take a stand that is good for YOU. I am worried about YOU. From what you have said, that is a valid concern. Sometimes we have no choice, if we want to stay safe, than to make drastic changes in our behaviors, but you do not have to. It is 100% your decision. I do hope things improve for all four of you...bio mom, husband, you, step child, but I fear step child needs more help than he is getting and you are not strong enough to fight him off. That does not mean mentally strong. Physically strong is different. You have a lot on your plate. If nothing changes within you, and that doesn't necessarily mean a divorce...it can mean simply leaving the house rather than being there when you are alone with dangerous stepson, well, yeah...nothing will change and as he gets bigger and stronger it could even be worse.</p><p></p><p>I will hope you stay. Since I've given all the advice I can think of, I won't bother you again with an answer. I do wish you the very best.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="BusynMember, post: 630507, member: 1550"] I'm sorry. I have tried to help. Tried HARD to help. I can't anymore. I did not mean you are weak. I am simply saying that if you don't change what you do, nothing in your marriage will change. And you do know that you are afraid of SS and your husband does not seem to acknowledge this. I did not mean to hurt you; just frustrated that you will not take a stand that is good for YOU. I am worried about YOU. From what you have said, that is a valid concern. Sometimes we have no choice, if we want to stay safe, than to make drastic changes in our behaviors, but you do not have to. It is 100% your decision. I do hope things improve for all four of you...bio mom, husband, you, step child, but I fear step child needs more help than he is getting and you are not strong enough to fight him off. That does not mean mentally strong. Physically strong is different. You have a lot on your plate. If nothing changes within you, and that doesn't necessarily mean a divorce...it can mean simply leaving the house rather than being there when you are alone with dangerous stepson, well, yeah...nothing will change and as he gets bigger and stronger it could even be worse. I will hope you stay. Since I've given all the advice I can think of, I won't bother you again with an answer. I do wish you the very best. [/QUOTE]
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