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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 763174" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>I am getting tired so I will just respond to this. I think this is necessary and wise, this caution. I have only physically seen my son once since last Thanksgiving. He knows he cannot come to my home unless he is invited and M is here too. There has been too much volatility. And I live alone without anybody else who I have a responsibility to protect. I am not saying my son is volatile. It is more that I am reactive because I am fearful and I fear for myself when he is around. I did go and talk to him alone about 6 months ago. We sat in my car and it was nice. </p><p></p><p>What I am trying to say is that these are NOT normal mother-child interactions. How traumatic and how very sad. But for us, real.</p><p>The other thing about your daughters is that for them, it's the give-an-inch-and-then-a-mile problem. You have been there too many times, for too long. I don't know the answer but your daughters need to understand limits. And they don't. My son doesn't either. </p><p>Love, Copa</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 763174, member: 18958"] I am getting tired so I will just respond to this. I think this is necessary and wise, this caution. I have only physically seen my son once since last Thanksgiving. He knows he cannot come to my home unless he is invited and M is here too. There has been too much volatility. And I live alone without anybody else who I have a responsibility to protect. I am not saying my son is volatile. It is more that I am reactive because I am fearful and I fear for myself when he is around. I did go and talk to him alone about 6 months ago. We sat in my car and it was nice. What I am trying to say is that these are NOT normal mother-child interactions. How traumatic and how very sad. But for us, real. The other thing about your daughters is that for them, it's the give-an-inch-and-then-a-mile problem. You have been there too many times, for too long. I don't know the answer but your daughters need to understand limits. And they don't. My son doesn't either. Love, Copa [/QUOTE]
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