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<blockquote data-quote="recoveringenabler" data-source="post: 608166" data-attributes="member: 13542"><p>I'm so glad he's arrived. Yes, there isn't much you can do now other then pray and send him off with your love, which he definitely feels from you. You did a really great job JKF, you certainly could NOT have done more........you showed up at every single step of the way, making sure your boy was safe. Now let him be with your Dad, perhaps an older man can give your boy something you, the Mom, or your husband the step dad, can't. Now he's with his bio granddad, there is something there that seems important. Even for your Dad, not just for your boy. </p><p></p><p>When my granddaughter came to live with me and started to connect with my SO, I was amazed at the connection they formed. Over time I saw how much she needed a Dad and my SO is a GREAT Dad, so it was a perfect fit. Something just clicked for them and in some odd ways she is closer to him then me, he gave her something I just couldn't (I just can't have an in-depth conversation about the Giants like they can!!!), and she to him too. It is really very heartwarming to me. Perhaps that bond may form with your son and your Dad, there is something special which can happen when there is a skipped generation in between. I had that with my grandmother as my granddaughter has with me. That would be a really nice outcome to your story JKF.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="recoveringenabler, post: 608166, member: 13542"] I'm so glad he's arrived. Yes, there isn't much you can do now other then pray and send him off with your love, which he definitely feels from you. You did a really great job JKF, you certainly could NOT have done more........you showed up at every single step of the way, making sure your boy was safe. Now let him be with your Dad, perhaps an older man can give your boy something you, the Mom, or your husband the step dad, can't. Now he's with his bio granddad, there is something there that seems important. Even for your Dad, not just for your boy. When my granddaughter came to live with me and started to connect with my SO, I was amazed at the connection they formed. Over time I saw how much she needed a Dad and my SO is a GREAT Dad, so it was a perfect fit. Something just clicked for them and in some odd ways she is closer to him then me, he gave her something I just couldn't (I just can't have an in-depth conversation about the Giants like they can!!!), and she to him too. It is really very heartwarming to me. Perhaps that bond may form with your son and your Dad, there is something special which can happen when there is a skipped generation in between. I had that with my grandmother as my granddaughter has with me. That would be a really nice outcome to your story JKF. [/QUOTE]
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