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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 658202" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>This is true, Copa. Your underlying theory, I mean. That is the little, core piece maybe, the beginning identifiable good thing that we grew into possessing <em>against the will of our abusers.</em> If there were any way they could have prevented our ascendancy <em>at any time, but most certainly as they were themselves aging</em> they would have done so, Copa. But they couldn't. Not in the horribly physical ways they hurt us when we were little and powerless, they couldn't. <em>We knew then, how to go for help, or how to leave them altogether.</em></p><p></p><p><em>So we did it to ourselves for them. And that accounts for FOG wrapping itself around everything to do with body function or sexuality, for us, and for those hurt as we were who survived it and in time, came to possess that strength and power and rage that comes with adolescence.</em></p><p></p><p>Good work, Copa.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 658202, member: 17461"] This is true, Copa. Your underlying theory, I mean. That is the little, core piece maybe, the beginning identifiable good thing that we grew into possessing [I]against the will of our abusers.[/I] If there were any way they could have prevented our ascendancy [I]at any time, but most certainly as they were themselves aging[/I] they would have done so, Copa. But they couldn't. Not in the horribly physical ways they hurt us when we were little and powerless, they couldn't. [I]We knew then, how to go for help, or how to leave them altogether.[/I] [I]So we did it to ourselves for them. And that accounts for FOG wrapping itself around everything to do with body function or sexuality, for us, and for those hurt as we were who survived it and in time, came to possess that strength and power and rage that comes with adolescence.[/I] Good work, Copa. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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