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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 658548" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>You asked about my children, Copa.</p><p></p><p>After the school year the year all this started? Our daughter shaved her head and had the head chakra tattooed. And the artist told her this would create problems unless she took very careful and attentive care of herself, because he was opening a chakra point or something. </p><p></p><p>She actually looked very beautiful without hair. Part of that whole thing was to be a woman defiantly without hair or makeup or artifice. It was supposed to grow back before the school year started. But she never did go back to her school where she worked, that year.</p><p></p><p>Both my children are vitally interesting and like, blaring out emotions all over the place. They put things together in new ways and come up with the strangest things that they play and play with until they go on to the next thing. What is my daughter doing, now. She is gardening; making a garden where she knows where certain spiders make their webs and what lives in the soil and how everything works together and what lives in the woods around them and how the sun cycle is affecting the climate and so on. Last year, it was a kind of spider that lived near their barbecue grill. They stopped grilling altogether because the spider lived there. It was a female spider apparently, of the same kind that the spider was, in Charlotte's Web. There is actually a spider which makes decorative or decorated, webs. As did the spider in that movie. And my daughter posted pictures of the spider and the web throughout the summer.</p><p></p><p>Which was an incredibly interesting thing.</p><p></p><p>And she wanted to make lead casts of the interiors of ant hills, but I think she could never figure out just how to do it because I never heard that she did it. She knows so much about magnetic poles and sunspots and what is happening in outer space. She has her computer set up so that when she is not using it, NASA, or some similar organization having to do with searching the heavens, can access her computer's power to boost their whatever. She said I should do the same because budget constraints are affecting our ability to see what is out there and this will be something we all could do.</p><p></p><p>I was like, "Honey. We just learned how to answer our Smart phone without taking our own pictures. This setting up of computers so someone else can look at the stars or whatever will have to wait." </p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>My son.</p><p></p><p>Looks so much like his father. Same flashing eyes, same explosiveness. But he is so witty, and so funny, like me. Once when he was home again to clean up, he hit a fox with his truck. And it was late at night and he just hadn't seen it in time to stop. And here he comes into the house carrying this poor, dying fox. He laid it on the counter in the kitchen and when it died, he apologized and said something like, "I'm sorry buddy, I did what I could for you."</p><p></p><p>And he covered the fox, and buried him on the hill behind our house the next morning.</p><p></p><p>He reads all kinds of things, novels and articles and textbooks when he wants to, and he understands the theory behind how things work. That is like his father, too. And he is so surprised at how it feels to love his children, and he keeps stumbling over that ~ over how you could love someone like that.</p><p></p><p>And he fees like he is the only one who knows that, and it never occurs to him that is how we love him.</p><p></p><p>He is not married to, but has been with, the mother of his child for something like ten years. She is beautiful ~ really, stunning looking, and very gentle in her eyes and her voice.</p><p></p><p>And our son used to have waist length hair; one day, he cut it and gave it to me. I still have it. Which is fortunate, because after that he kept it very short and now, his hair has grey in it.</p><p></p><p>So he tells me, now that we are speaking again.</p><p></p><p>We will see them this year, one way or another. We have been telling the kids we are not paying for trips home. So, he hasn't been coming home to visit, even when we are talking. Which we usually aren't.</p><p></p><p>But this year, we will see them, even if we do have to buy tickets.</p><p></p><p>We are all right on board with that idea of paying for the tickets except for </p><p>D H.</p><p></p><p>So, those are my children, Copa.</p><p> </p><p>I like them very much.</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 658548, member: 17461"] You asked about my children, Copa. After the school year the year all this started? Our daughter shaved her head and had the head chakra tattooed. And the artist told her this would create problems unless she took very careful and attentive care of herself, because he was opening a chakra point or something. She actually looked very beautiful without hair. Part of that whole thing was to be a woman defiantly without hair or makeup or artifice. It was supposed to grow back before the school year started. But she never did go back to her school where she worked, that year. Both my children are vitally interesting and like, blaring out emotions all over the place. They put things together in new ways and come up with the strangest things that they play and play with until they go on to the next thing. What is my daughter doing, now. She is gardening; making a garden where she knows where certain spiders make their webs and what lives in the soil and how everything works together and what lives in the woods around them and how the sun cycle is affecting the climate and so on. Last year, it was a kind of spider that lived near their barbecue grill. They stopped grilling altogether because the spider lived there. It was a female spider apparently, of the same kind that the spider was, in Charlotte's Web. There is actually a spider which makes decorative or decorated, webs. As did the spider in that movie. And my daughter posted pictures of the spider and the web throughout the summer. Which was an incredibly interesting thing. And she wanted to make lead casts of the interiors of ant hills, but I think she could never figure out just how to do it because I never heard that she did it. She knows so much about magnetic poles and sunspots and what is happening in outer space. She has her computer set up so that when she is not using it, NASA, or some similar organization having to do with searching the heavens, can access her computer's power to boost their whatever. She said I should do the same because budget constraints are affecting our ability to see what is out there and this will be something we all could do. I was like, "Honey. We just learned how to answer our Smart phone without taking our own pictures. This setting up of computers so someone else can look at the stars or whatever will have to wait." :O) My son. Looks so much like his father. Same flashing eyes, same explosiveness. But he is so witty, and so funny, like me. Once when he was home again to clean up, he hit a fox with his truck. And it was late at night and he just hadn't seen it in time to stop. And here he comes into the house carrying this poor, dying fox. He laid it on the counter in the kitchen and when it died, he apologized and said something like, "I'm sorry buddy, I did what I could for you." And he covered the fox, and buried him on the hill behind our house the next morning. He reads all kinds of things, novels and articles and textbooks when he wants to, and he understands the theory behind how things work. That is like his father, too. And he is so surprised at how it feels to love his children, and he keeps stumbling over that ~ over how you could love someone like that. And he fees like he is the only one who knows that, and it never occurs to him that is how we love him. He is not married to, but has been with, the mother of his child for something like ten years. She is beautiful ~ really, stunning looking, and very gentle in her eyes and her voice. And our son used to have waist length hair; one day, he cut it and gave it to me. I still have it. Which is fortunate, because after that he kept it very short and now, his hair has grey in it. So he tells me, now that we are speaking again. We will see them this year, one way or another. We have been telling the kids we are not paying for trips home. So, he hasn't been coming home to visit, even when we are talking. Which we usually aren't. But this year, we will see them, even if we do have to buy tickets. We are all right on board with that idea of paying for the tickets except for D H. So, those are my children, Copa. I like them very much. Cedar [/QUOTE]
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