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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="Copabanana" data-source="post: 662436" data-attributes="member: 18958"><p>The thing is I am in a space now where I seem unable to tolerate at all my worry about my son. And I am in a space where I want to treasure him more than 500 houses, and all the things inside. (Except many of these things are my mother's and I do not know how I will feel if they are destroyed.) I can divide my home so that he is restricted to one or two rooms, with his own entrance.</p><p></p><p>When M left this morning I said to him: I am so worried about son (as if he didn't know because neither one of us is sleeping. I because I cannot, he for the same reason.)</p><p></p><p>And M replied: You cannot let SON stay here just so that he has a phone and you can call him. I will not allow it. You have to find a way to rise above these feelings. Because we cannot go across the country with you as you are. *I think he means a helpless mess.</p><p></p><p>There is the implicit question here whether our animals will be well taken care of. And the other very legitimate question of whether I will worry about them, and that will affect our trip.</p><p></p><p>We have left my son with 2 animals and they were fine. But that was for 2 or 3 weeks, not for months. And for almost a year he took care of the animals 4 or 5 days a week, sometimes 2 weeks at a time, when we came home on weekends. I don't know.</p><p></p><p>And then there is the question of how to travel with at least two animals, and how that will be. Because neither M or I will consider parting with the Boxer and our cat. Only poor Romeo seems to be negotiable, and I for one, would rather not part with him, either.</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Copabanana, post: 662436, member: 18958"] The thing is I am in a space now where I seem unable to tolerate at all my worry about my son. And I am in a space where I want to treasure him more than 500 houses, and all the things inside. (Except many of these things are my mother's and I do not know how I will feel if they are destroyed.) I can divide my home so that he is restricted to one or two rooms, with his own entrance. When M left this morning I said to him: I am so worried about son (as if he didn't know because neither one of us is sleeping. I because I cannot, he for the same reason.) And M replied: You cannot let SON stay here just so that he has a phone and you can call him. I will not allow it. You have to find a way to rise above these feelings. Because we cannot go across the country with you as you are. *I think he means a helpless mess. There is the implicit question here whether our animals will be well taken care of. And the other very legitimate question of whether I will worry about them, and that will affect our trip. We have left my son with 2 animals and they were fine. But that was for 2 or 3 weeks, not for months. And for almost a year he took care of the animals 4 or 5 days a week, sometimes 2 weeks at a time, when we came home on weekends. I don't know. And then there is the question of how to travel with at least two animals, and how that will be. Because neither M or I will consider parting with the Boxer and our cat. Only poor Romeo seems to be negotiable, and I for one, would rather not part with him, either. [/QUOTE]
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