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Hey, Cedar, or anyone interested in FOO (Family of Origin) issues. Cedar, WHY NOW???
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<blockquote data-quote="Scent of Cedar *" data-source="post: 662446" data-attributes="member: 17461"><p>Belle, I love that so much better than allusedup.</p><p></p><p>:O)</p><p></p><p>There is a certain way for us to see what happens for our children in their lives, Belle. It is very hard for us to get to that place. Part of standing in that strong mother place is trusting ourselves; trusting ourselves, and believing in ourselves that, whatever our circumstances were, we taught our children well.</p><p></p><p>They know right from wrong Belle, because we taught them right from wrong.</p><p></p><p>What they do as adults is about their destiny, is about the paths they will choose to follow. We can advise. We can question. For instance, you might open a conversation with son <em>and the woman he loves</em> about abusive behaviors and respect and etc. If you try to separate the two of them Belle, your son will cleave to the woman.</p><p></p><p>He will protect the woman. Perceiving you as a threat, she will draw him away.</p><p></p><p>How does the girl respond to you now, Belle? Could it be that she was poorly mothered, and that you could become a mentor or mother figure for her?</p><p></p><p>Cedar</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Scent of Cedar *, post: 662446, member: 17461"] Belle, I love that so much better than allusedup. :O) There is a certain way for us to see what happens for our children in their lives, Belle. It is very hard for us to get to that place. Part of standing in that strong mother place is trusting ourselves; trusting ourselves, and believing in ourselves that, whatever our circumstances were, we taught our children well. They know right from wrong Belle, because we taught them right from wrong. What they do as adults is about their destiny, is about the paths they will choose to follow. We can advise. We can question. For instance, you might open a conversation with son [I]and the woman he loves[/I] about abusive behaviors and respect and etc. If you try to separate the two of them Belle, your son will cleave to the woman. He will protect the woman. Perceiving you as a threat, she will draw him away. How does the girl respond to you now, Belle? Could it be that she was poorly mothered, and that you could become a mentor or mother figure for her? Cedar [/QUOTE]
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