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<blockquote data-quote="sunxstone" data-source="post: 316225" data-attributes="member: 8297"><p>Hi all!</p><p></p><p>Sorry it took me so long to reply, it's been a hectic week.</p><p></p><p>difficult child's school called CPS on us again because difficult child refuses to shower. I don't know what they want me to do. I can't force my 90 pound 12 year old into the shower and hose him down myself. They'd probably consider that "abuse" too. I can't stand this 'behavior modification" campus. They don't know *anything* about kids with issues. And instead of talking to me about difficult child's issues they call CPS any time something comes up. So glad to be moving out of this hellhole!</p><p></p><p>Does anyone else's difficult child urinate where they shouldn't out of anger / spite? We cannot get difficult child to understand he cannot do that! It's fairly new behavior, as of 3 months ago or so. His room smells horrible and I cannot get it clean. <img src="data:image/gif;base64,R0lGODlhAQABAIAAAAAAAP///yH5BAEAAAAALAAAAAABAAEAAAIBRAA7" class="smilie smilie--sprite smilie--sprite3" alt=":(" title="Frown :(" loading="lazy" data-shortname=":(" /> It's like he doesn't even notice the smell. </p><p></p><p>difficult child says he did it to keep us out of his room (he likes to hoard things and when things go missing we check his room.) And part of it I think is just laziness because the bathroom is literally right next door to his room. Out his bedroom door directly to the left is the bathroom door. </p><p></p><p>He started by urinating in the play room where we had the kids computer so I moved the computer into my room. It was a matter of "I don't wanna get up from my game right now, so I'll just go in this corner". After I moved the computer he started going in his room all the time. We send him for time out / calm down time and he urinates on the carpet.</p><p></p><p>I don't know how to address this behavior, and so far, neither does anyone else. We're moving to a new house in 8 weeks and I don't want to take this behavior with us! </p><p></p><p>Thanks</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="sunxstone, post: 316225, member: 8297"] Hi all! Sorry it took me so long to reply, it's been a hectic week. difficult child's school called CPS on us again because difficult child refuses to shower. I don't know what they want me to do. I can't force my 90 pound 12 year old into the shower and hose him down myself. They'd probably consider that "abuse" too. I can't stand this 'behavior modification" campus. They don't know *anything* about kids with issues. And instead of talking to me about difficult child's issues they call CPS any time something comes up. So glad to be moving out of this hellhole! Does anyone else's difficult child urinate where they shouldn't out of anger / spite? We cannot get difficult child to understand he cannot do that! It's fairly new behavior, as of 3 months ago or so. His room smells horrible and I cannot get it clean. :( It's like he doesn't even notice the smell. difficult child says he did it to keep us out of his room (he likes to hoard things and when things go missing we check his room.) And part of it I think is just laziness because the bathroom is literally right next door to his room. Out his bedroom door directly to the left is the bathroom door. He started by urinating in the play room where we had the kids computer so I moved the computer into my room. It was a matter of "I don't wanna get up from my game right now, so I'll just go in this corner". After I moved the computer he started going in his room all the time. We send him for time out / calm down time and he urinates on the carpet. I don't know how to address this behavior, and so far, neither does anyone else. We're moving to a new house in 8 weeks and I don't want to take this behavior with us! Thanks [/QUOTE]
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