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<blockquote data-quote="Chrissy" data-source="post: 89334" data-attributes="member: 4241"><p>Thank you. I know I left out alot leading up to where we are at but it is hard with a 3 year old tugging at you,lol. She is napping now so I will try and fill in a bit.</p><p></p><p>Zack is overall a good kid but loves to push my buttons and often. I tried everything when it came to punishments, I took it all away from him or one thing at a time, nothing worked. He lied about everything and made every story into something bigger then it was. In the 4th grade he wrote a ransom note and was almost expelled for a short time. He never seems to care about what he does, right or wrong. He is so sneaky it is scary. He is always moving, fidgiting, biting his nails and things. He tries to put the blame for his wrong doings on everyone else and trusts no one. Like with the "Hit List", he said he didn't trust a teacher to talk to cause they only listen to the popular kids. Which is sometimes true. He never said he was sorry for it and when we went to court he acted like it wasn't a big deal. He was rude with his probation officer and is rude with his teachers.He acts like everything is my fault and always blames me for hsi wrong doings. Zack will not try nothing new, will not play sports and really dislikes being told what to do. He is always talking about the future and he will be his own boss. I am always tense around him cause I never know if what I say will make him mad and explode. I hate feeling the way I do but it is so hard. My family put blame on his Bio dad and being a preteen. I look back at some many things that we have gone through and am amazed at how this was all right there. After finding out about ODD/ADHD I did massive reasearch and just cried while reading and kept telling my husband, "This is Zack". I've had a few suggest ADHD to me but thought it was only a learning disorder and Zack actually gets good grades but choose not to cause his friends don't, he is very bright but lazy when it comes to homework and studying. I'm hoping to learn more about both things from people who experience them, like with Miss J and her CF. I searched the net and got all the horror stories untill I found a great place to talk to others going through the same thing. He is being seen weekly and I will be starting on the 31st. My panic attacks are back in full swing and I don't sleep which doesn't help matters anymore. Any questions are welcome too. I'm off to read while Miss J is sleeping even though I should nap. Thanks again for the welcome. :smile:</p></blockquote><p></p>
[QUOTE="Chrissy, post: 89334, member: 4241"] Thank you. I know I left out alot leading up to where we are at but it is hard with a 3 year old tugging at you,lol. She is napping now so I will try and fill in a bit. Zack is overall a good kid but loves to push my buttons and often. I tried everything when it came to punishments, I took it all away from him or one thing at a time, nothing worked. He lied about everything and made every story into something bigger then it was. In the 4th grade he wrote a ransom note and was almost expelled for a short time. He never seems to care about what he does, right or wrong. He is so sneaky it is scary. He is always moving, fidgiting, biting his nails and things. He tries to put the blame for his wrong doings on everyone else and trusts no one. Like with the "Hit List", he said he didn't trust a teacher to talk to cause they only listen to the popular kids. Which is sometimes true. He never said he was sorry for it and when we went to court he acted like it wasn't a big deal. He was rude with his probation officer and is rude with his teachers.He acts like everything is my fault and always blames me for hsi wrong doings. Zack will not try nothing new, will not play sports and really dislikes being told what to do. He is always talking about the future and he will be his own boss. I am always tense around him cause I never know if what I say will make him mad and explode. I hate feeling the way I do but it is so hard. My family put blame on his Bio dad and being a preteen. I look back at some many things that we have gone through and am amazed at how this was all right there. After finding out about ODD/ADHD I did massive reasearch and just cried while reading and kept telling my husband, "This is Zack". I've had a few suggest ADHD to me but thought it was only a learning disorder and Zack actually gets good grades but choose not to cause his friends don't, he is very bright but lazy when it comes to homework and studying. I'm hoping to learn more about both things from people who experience them, like with Miss J and her CF. I searched the net and got all the horror stories untill I found a great place to talk to others going through the same thing. He is being seen weekly and I will be starting on the 31st. My panic attacks are back in full swing and I don't sleep which doesn't help matters anymore. Any questions are welcome too. I'm off to read while Miss J is sleeping even though I should nap. Thanks again for the welcome. [img]:smile:[/img] [/QUOTE]
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